RedxPanda
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I've lurked and searched and driven myself crazy.. so it's time for me to emerge from my quiet corner of the DISroom.
The current situation:
I'm in the process of trying to get everyone on board for a Wishes wedding...
DFTW is holding a day for us at them moment, for an escape wedding... but I had this revelation
that we should just go for it! Wishes all the way!
We are having a hard time splitting the guest list for 18 guests... It is horrible and I got stomach aches and felt disturbed about the whole thing. DF and his family were saying if "She", aka the Devil aka me, wants a small DFTW then "she" can give up 2 of her guest count. I wouldn't have minded so Smuch, but the two guests they want aren't even family.. they are very close to them but not blood related... and I happen to have lots of family here with us in the central FL area that would love to attend. My mom was agitated at first too, but her and my dad are divorced and she isn't sure of how much money she and he can scrounge up to pay for this thing. So she said lets just give in and if they want to use up all the ceremony slots... we can just invite our other guests to the dinner we have afterward... we were thinking of just booking a group dinner at CA grill, or O'hana or another venue that could accommodate us fairly easily without needing a private room.
If we upgrade to Wishes..
We will most definitely have less than 50 guests... we are secretly hoping for 40 on the dot.. so we don't have to worry about the room block of 50. 85% of people are from Florida, so we aren't sure of who would actually want to stay on property.. which is crazy to me, b/c I love the resorts.. and I think a lot of my family would stay, but only a night or 2 and they could find 4 people to share just about each room if needed, and his family hasn't ever stayed on site. I'm hoping a nice planning packet via me will help coach everyone to stay with us at POR or POFQ. 20% off a mod sounds good enough to me!
The trick here, we want to keep the cost as close to the minimum $10k as possible. But the parents ae concerned that a Monday or Thursday will deter people from coming.
I have a hard time believing this. Who doesn't want an excuse for a long weekend???!?!
We are going to cut most of the frills out of this... I don't need a big to do at the ceremony.. so we are going with the Yacht Club Wedding Gazebo.. I like that there is floral there already..
The reception is where I would like to spend most of the $10k, and with 40 ppl that should be easy. @ $100 a head, that's easily $4000 + any set-up and location fees. I like the Living Seas Salon.. but DF doesn't like the bus transport. He's coming around though. After I prodded him a bit he finally said I don't want to transport our family in those cheesy Disney Buses, that I love
.
I then had to explain that its a chartered motor coach... which is a bus for all intensive purposes, but I assume doesn't have plastic purple seats and advertisements for DVC.
Oki Doki, now to get to the point before you need a new cup
I am determined that we can do this! And I have rough estimates for just about everything. The big unknown to me is the cake.
I like the mad hatter but I fear the price that must be associated.
I also like the gift box and the happily ever after, and the mickey's delight.
We can probably put a bit into the cake, unless I talk them into a DP, which I think would be awesome, but would require another bus fee
.
Sorry if I put you all to sleep, but if you're like me, you find comfort that there are plently of other DisBrides that are on a quest just like your own.
My first real question here is:
For 40-50 people... how much will a cake set us back?
The current situation:
I'm in the process of trying to get everyone on board for a Wishes wedding...
DFTW is holding a day for us at them moment, for an escape wedding... but I had this revelation

We are having a hard time splitting the guest list for 18 guests... It is horrible and I got stomach aches and felt disturbed about the whole thing. DF and his family were saying if "She", aka the Devil aka me, wants a small DFTW then "she" can give up 2 of her guest count. I wouldn't have minded so Smuch, but the two guests they want aren't even family.. they are very close to them but not blood related... and I happen to have lots of family here with us in the central FL area that would love to attend. My mom was agitated at first too, but her and my dad are divorced and she isn't sure of how much money she and he can scrounge up to pay for this thing. So she said lets just give in and if they want to use up all the ceremony slots... we can just invite our other guests to the dinner we have afterward... we were thinking of just booking a group dinner at CA grill, or O'hana or another venue that could accommodate us fairly easily without needing a private room.
If we upgrade to Wishes..
We will most definitely have less than 50 guests... we are secretly hoping for 40 on the dot.. so we don't have to worry about the room block of 50. 85% of people are from Florida, so we aren't sure of who would actually want to stay on property.. which is crazy to me, b/c I love the resorts.. and I think a lot of my family would stay, but only a night or 2 and they could find 4 people to share just about each room if needed, and his family hasn't ever stayed on site. I'm hoping a nice planning packet via me will help coach everyone to stay with us at POR or POFQ. 20% off a mod sounds good enough to me!
The trick here, we want to keep the cost as close to the minimum $10k as possible. But the parents ae concerned that a Monday or Thursday will deter people from coming.

We are going to cut most of the frills out of this... I don't need a big to do at the ceremony.. so we are going with the Yacht Club Wedding Gazebo.. I like that there is floral there already..
The reception is where I would like to spend most of the $10k, and with 40 ppl that should be easy. @ $100 a head, that's easily $4000 + any set-up and location fees. I like the Living Seas Salon.. but DF doesn't like the bus transport. He's coming around though. After I prodded him a bit he finally said I don't want to transport our family in those cheesy Disney Buses, that I love


Oki Doki, now to get to the point before you need a new cup

I am determined that we can do this! And I have rough estimates for just about everything. The big unknown to me is the cake.
I like the mad hatter but I fear the price that must be associated.
I also like the gift box and the happily ever after, and the mickey's delight.
We can probably put a bit into the cake, unless I talk them into a DP, which I think would be awesome, but would require another bus fee

Sorry if I put you all to sleep, but if you're like me, you find comfort that there are plently of other DisBrides that are on a quest just like your own.

My first real question here is:
For 40-50 people... how much will a cake set us back?
