jodifla
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I have met many who are making the choice based on thier kid being smarter, faster, stronger, or just wanting another year of them as a "baby". It is quite common here. Sports are HUGE and parents want to give thier kids the edge. The research I am siting was presented to us this summer at a system wide K-12 conference. I only have my notes, but I will find the authors and their works if I can. The jist of what was presented thoughout the week was that American children are capable of far more than what they are achieving because we as a society have lowered our expectations. There was a segment examining the ages students first start schooling in other countries, and for many of the most successful that is 3-4 years old. The idea is that by the time they reach K at 5, they have been taught how to act in a classroom, and the real teaching can begin. Children are achieving more in nations where they are in school earlier. Many of these nations also teach on the "sit down and shut up" platform, and are still out achieving us. So no, I don't buy "he's not ready" or "he can't sit still".
And at what cost are these children achieving more?
I spent a while talking to someone who grew up in India....he thinks elementary school is too easy here, too social, because he was miserable going to school in India. He said all they did was work, work, work and all you could be that was acceptable was a doctor like his wife, or an engineer like him, or maybe a lawyer or doctor. It was very stifling, a pressure cooker, and he has mixed feelings about the elementary school situation.
But he notes that his kids love school, are happy to go, and they are learning. He also noted that he sees that school gets harder in middle and high school, and he says that U.S. colleges are just second to none, which is why he came here to go to college.
You keep taking the conversation in another direction -- largely to say derogatory things about the poor, it seems.
Think what you like. Parents will do what's best for their children.