Thanks for all the information. Our default plan was getting a window table at Cali Grill and watching fireworks. However, I will look into some of the other suggested places like V&A, Jiko, Boardwalk and Narcoossee's. We have not tried any of those yet.
We will be at OKW in Jan., and the budget for dinner is open, I am more concerned with a great experience. I have had good and bad experiences at expensive steak houses and at casual diners - so it does not have to be overly formal, just a great experience. We like steak, seafood and pasta.
Again, you suggestions are great. Anything else you would throw in for a 10th anni. at Disney?