Ranting... (post yours too)

[pigletgirl]

Ugh, I'm so pissed about the comments people make to me about this new baby coming. Yes, I am excited and everything, but I still wish, in the back of my mind that this little girl, wasn't coming at all. Am I terrible for thinking this? We had the first of many baby showers this past weekend and I didn't engage at all..didn't have any interest.. I'm also watching the ticker in my signature tick down quickly, and the closer it gets to DDay, the more angry I seem to get. I've tried to talk to my mom about it, but she won't listen to me. All of my other siblings though seem to be so excited..

I just needed to get that out..its one of the only things that I think of, plus I have finals this week...just a bunch of craziness I guess...

 

[pigletgirl]

ignore my other post...these boards are messing me up...

 

[IrishTink]

congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[BabyPiglet]

Well I'm sure everyone your age thinks that before they have a baby... I bet even adults do too. I don't know ... I can't really support you cuz I've never been thru that before...

 

[pigletgirl]

Just to clarify, I'm not the one having the baby, my mom is.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Just to clarify, I'm not the one having the baby, my mom is.

OH I am sooooooooooo sorry!!!!! I just thought...I don't know what I thought but I am soooooooo sorry!!!!

I think everyone feels like that before they get a new sibling... I am an only child but when we were about to adopt two kids I got verrrrry apprehensive!!!

 

[Lil_Tink]

I understand. I guess having a baby around is a big responsiblity. I dont really have any advice. But I guess just be really happy for your Mom.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Well, I suppose, I wouldn't be happy either if my mother just said 'Oh we're having another child.' (but then again, my mother isn't going to, she's too old). But the thing is, she wants the child. I suppose it's her decision what she wants to do with her body, and I'm sure your parents discussed this like adults. For now, just support her, support your family, I'm sure you'll grow to love her. I don't blame you for being angry, but you just can't have everything be perfect.