We are going next week and will find out. There are 6 of us, 3 children under the age of 7, and I'm not expecting it to be easy. When its super hot and you are tired, the last thing you want is to stand in line with whining crying kids that are complaining about hurting feet. It not just us parents that will be frustrated by listening to that but the other people in line as well. So the people without small children will finally get their seat, even though they are in the best position to "deal" with not having a seat right away. Children cannot be reasoned with and don't understand, adults do!
Disney sure wants to make sure that the paying adults are taken care of, but what about the kids? When you have sleeping children in a stroller, and other people in your party starving, how are you supposed to stand in line with them? I cannot imagine making my husband and our double stroller stand to the side, where would there be room for that? I'm not about to leave my sleeping children outside!
I never understand this and I think that people who make these rules or typically agree with them are the ones who either don't have children and have no idea how hard it is, or those who have grown children and they have totally forgotten what its like to be in this position. Really, why can't my husband get a table and start getting our children settled before I bring the food? We have to get the highchair ready, clean up the area with wet wipes, get the other kids in their seats, get the stroller put away ... it takes more than just sitting down and instantly eating when you have small children. My husband should be allowed to get this done while I order and carry all the food back. How come its more important to make it easier on those who get to order, walk out and sit down, eat and get back outside? Shouldn't the children, in all places - Disneyworld, be more important?????
Why can't a cast member just be out in the eating area to monitor rather than policing a line?? How hard is it to ask people who are not eating whether their food is coming soon? Then they can ask if everything is okay and offer some nice customer service. If people are lounging, it won't take long to realize they are doing just that and they can be asked to leave! So put up a big sign that lounging is NOT ALLOWED if its such a problem.
Not Disney but on the same topic, I notice in church during the holidays they love to make a "no saving seats" in the church and they are very strict about it. So for those of us who have sleeping children in the car and one spouse with them, to make sure that the child gets enough rest to not have tantrums and ruin it for all, and to avoid them having to sit in the pew for any longer than they have to, we all get screwed! I never understand how people think so little of making it easier on the little ones, its for everybody's sake, not just the parents!
I think this situation could be handled easier without making hard and fast "rules." I mean c'mon, the woman in the wheelchair even experienced a terrible situation. This may have made it easier for the people who don't really need it, but for those of us who do, it makes it 100% harder!
If I were in an adult-themed situation, I would NEVER expect accommodations for my children, but in Disney, I absolutely expect it to be geared towards them and their happiness.