Pembo, first of all I'd like to let you know we'll be keeping you guys in our prayers.
Have the doc said by any chance if your daughter might also have some sort of 'syndrome'? You might ask them about it next visit.
Well, here goes.... my daugher, now 13, has a syndrome called Crouzon's. At least we think so.

She doesn't really 'fit' into any one exactly. There are several in that area of craniofacial syndromes and she 'fits this one most.
She was also born with craniosynostosis. As a matter of fact her's was so bad, that we had to do an emergency C-section after 16 hours of labor, since there we NO WAY she was coming through the birth canal. Luckily my blood pressure was jumping all over the place, so the doc finally said the heck with it and did the C-section.
Her head on the back was fused so bad that it even made a little ridge from about midway back. She had her first expansion surgery at age 5 months, too. She looked awfully bad at first, very scary for us. But, do remember that head surgeries always make the kiddies swell and bruise so. They actually rally back though in a few days. I think she went home after about 4 or 5 days.
In her case, it really made a difference. She hardly smiled any before the surgery, couldn't sleep on her stomach, and generally looked miserable. She must've had some awfully strong pressure in her head. (BTW, she also has hydrocephelus, so I'm SURE she had a great pressure). After the surgery and going home, though she changed overnight. She was smiling, breathing better, could sleep on her stomach, etc.... All the things that five month olds should do. Of course the doctor told us to lay her on her back a lot so they head could properly expand in the back afterwards. But, no not my child! She heard and decided to be stubborn. She could now sleep on her stomach and KNEW it.

Also, when she was a year and a half old, she had to have the front part of her head done as well. It had fused by then, and was making her head look 'domish', if you get the drift. That surgery also made her act differently. We could really tell the difference in her overall learning and health afterwards each time.
If you'd like her story is on the Crouzon's site. It's
www.crouzons.org or
www.crouzon.org. I never can remember if it has the letter s or not on the end.

And, her name is Faith, under the bio stories.
We also have a listserv so if you'd like to join to ask members questions about the synostosis, feel free to join up. Many of the kids with these craniofacial syndromes have the premature closure as well.
Good luck with your daughter. Feel free to email me at my email in my member listing. Kim
P.S. sorry for the long message.....
