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jekajekalynn

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Is it normal to have 1 skiped period? :confused3 I'm about 2 weeks late. I took a pregnancy test 3 days ago, and it came back negative. Can stress cause a late or missed period? I'm starting a new job this week. TIA!! :blush:
 
ohhh btw I'm not on bc right now because it causes unusual side effects with me so my doctor doesn't suggest me to be on them.
 
I don't think you have anything to worry about. I've had skipped periods before and it was no big deal, once I took a pregnancy test, I could relax and enjoy a "free" month. :woohoo: The worst part is that my next month is usually heavier, I guess to compensate for the previous month. :furious: If you don't have a period next month, I think you should call your doctor, but for now I personally wouldn't worry.

ETA: Stress can definitely effect your cycle.
 
I don't think you have anything to worry about... It is most likely the stress of starting a new job. Even if you don't noticeably feel stressed, it is a huge change and your body can percieve it as stress.

I just found these statements in the book, "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler (an EXCELLENT book I highly recommend). Maybe it's more info than you wanted, but hopefully it will be helpful:

"There are several ways, though in which stress can indirectly influence fertility...A second way is that stress itself may affect when ovulation occurs. In fact, one of the most common causes of delayed ovulation is both physiological and psychological stress. This is because stress can dramatically affect the functioning of the hypothalamus, that gland in the brain responsible for the regulation of appetite, temperature, and most important, emotions. It also regulates the pituitary gland, which in turn is responsible for the release of FSH and LH (reproductive hormones). When stress affects they hypothalamus, the end result can be delayed emission of these hormones, which are necessary for the release of a mature ovum...

If stress were to affect your cycle, then one of 2 things would probably happen:

1. You would have a longer-than-average cycle, with ovulation ocurring later than usual and menstruation following 12 to 16 days beyond, if pregnancy did not occur.

2. You would have a long cycle, but wouldn't release an egg (an anovulatory cycle). If this were the case, the cycle could theoretically extend for months. Or you would have a long cycle followed by anovulatory bleeding...

While it is true that stress can prevent ovulation, it more commonly delays it. For this reason, it is especially important to learn to focus on the signs that indicate approaching ovulation. That way, if stress iscausing delayed ovulation, you can at least take control by identifying when you are about to ovulate, and thus take advantage of the most fertile time..."


Laura
 

I would agree it is definitely stress! Last year, I was supposed to get my period on the second week of my honeymoon. It didn't come until a week after I got back! It was two weeks late. I attribute it to the stress of the wedding for sure! I'm a week late now and I know it's stress from my job and planning my upcoming vacation! Talk to your doc anyway to be safe!
 
It could very well be stress, but don't rule out pregnancy yet.

I had a period when I was pregnant with my first so I didn't find out I was pregnant until 7 weeks along--thought I had the worst case of the flu.

With my second, I knew I was pregnant and got negative test after negative test. I was in the doctor with my oldest when I got sick. His pedi asked if I was pregnant and told him I thought I was, but I kept getting neg. He told me to get a blood test. Yup, I KNEW I was pregnant.

Third one took me by surprise. Got a negative first, retook the test the next day and got a positive.

My dr. says while false positives are uncommon, false negatives aren't--especially when you aren't "that" late. Just take care like your pregnant (no drinking, no smoking) and repeat the test in a few days to a week if your period doesn't arrive. It probably is just stress, but...

BTW--Is it just pills that bother you or any bc? You could try depro shots, IUD, diaphram...
 
...this is like sneaking into the gal's locker room. I love it when chicks talk dirty. :cool1: party:
 
Not that I would assume you're pregnant, but a friend of ours never got a positive pregnancy test with her 1st child, who will be 4 in May, and didn't get a positive one till around 8 weeks (or her 2nd missed period, so maybe 10 weeks, whatever) with her 2nd child, who will be 2 in June. So I wouldn't definitely go by a hpt. If you're concerned I'd go for a blood test. But that's just me, someone who was every 28 days-I could make a calendar by my cycles, so I knew if I was late something was up. Only happened to me twice and I'm currently on my 2nd pregnancy.
 


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