When I "met" my future spouse, I didn't find him "physically attractive." And I'd have laughed had anyone told me at the time that I'd be married to him within 5 years.
As I was develo0ing a friendship with my future spouse, I still didn't find him physically attractive. Indeed, the thought didn't enter my mind. If someone would have asked me, I'd have had to think about it, and would have said I didn't find him "physically attractive."
In time, eventually, I came to find him quite attractive, including physically. One day...nope, nuthin'. Next day...yikes, sure didn't see that comin'!
In fifteen years of marriage physical (and other) attractiveness has "waxed and waned," but at the end of the day, there's still no one else real or imaginary that I'd have rather shared it with. And that includes the days I don't like him.
My spouse and I share the same worldview, which is of utmost importance to us. We are both committed to lifelong marriage. We have much in common, but are also different in many ways. Our individual weaknesses and strengths offset and compliment one another, as well as drive us batty at times. We believe grace, humility and sacrificial love are necessary in our marriage, and although we can be oh-so-imperfect at it, we keep on keepin' on.
Sorry for the ramble...
