Quarantine and chill and kindness chatty clubhouse: Jump in and join the conversation! All is welcome!

[lynxstch]

Good morning. Another beautiful day on tap, temps only 80. Tomorrow heat waves starts again. They are predicting almost 100 by Friday and hot right through the weekend. I was debating mowing today, but there isn't enough of the lawn that really needs it. We need more rain so it stops turning brown. We both have appointments this afternoon with PCP. I feel like mine is a waste of time, it's just a usual 6 month check up, but nothing has changed since last time, at least there's no charge for the appts.

Did a little bit of cleaning in the cellar yesterday,,have to bring up the 3 bags and 2 boxes of trash to put out tomorrow

Tired of watching tv at night, there isn't much new to watch. Mr L still binge watching Naked and Afraid, and I played a game on my phone while he was watching it, it's not my cup of tea. Why would anyone want to subject themselves to that, especially naked, lol.

Have a great morning everyone

 

[Canadisney Fly]

Canadisney Fly, I'm truly so glad you have become a Quacker.

Thank you This has been a "hands across the ether" experience and thank YOU for opening the portal to so many peoples' lives. Shared human experience and kindness is so good for the soul.

SIL texted me that while in Maine, BIL just came down with shingles.

I'm so sorry to hear that - it's such a painful virus! I was really excited when the Shingrix vaccine came out, as I've had two people in my life who have had shingles, and it's something to avoid at all cost.

I sent out another application last night and got a call for an interview today for Friday.

Best of luck to you - new beginnings!

She's used to pushing her luck and not getting called on it.

They come into this world as perfect little beings, and we try not to damage them too much along the way! I have little tolerance for "lip and whine" (military influence in my upbringing), but it's HARD to always be on point and correct or redirect them. Mine was thankfully easy, but hats off to those who have offspring with a defiant streak, and the grandparents who can step in!

My orange cup are pictures on the wall down the hall to our bedrooms

Love the story of the orange cup - thanks for sharing. We've had so much loss over the last 15 years - my mum, dad, grandma, dearest BIL, aunt, friend, a 25 year old member of my team, and then during covid, the matriarch and patriarch of our family. I was 14 before I lost my first grandparent and had to deal with death - my son has had to experience all this loss in his short life. The pictures help to keep them alive, but boy, it's hard some days to redirect to celebrate the positives and not give in to the loss. I still struggle with "emerging" from COVID and my lilttle family of two - I had always dreamed of a big family. Under the Tuscan Sun is a film that resonates with me - it's time to rebuild.

I'm running Camp Gammie here for 2 days for my DD.

Love Camp Gammie! You're creating such wonderful memories for your GKs - I look back with such warmth on my summers with Grammy and had both sets of GPs for my formative years. Worth its weight in gold.

Have a beautiful day all. I'll be away for next week but I wish you all a beautiful 4th of July week.

 

[bobbiwoz]

Hello everyone. I will read more, but did want to say hi. The temperature here in Cape May is only 73° with 60% humidity, it’s a beautiful day.

I picked my first gladiola today!

 

[flyingdumbo127]

Very happy to hear about the new Carol. How wonderful that your DSIL has the summer off. I'm sorry your DD doesn't though. I hope she gets to enjoy some time off. Wishing them all the very best in their new home. You please stay dry

I'm not yet seeing the PollyannaMom, but that is a beautiful early morning picture. You and kitties get some rest!

What a fun experience for your son and his wife, Footballmouse! and I hope you did indeed enjoy your

Lynn, not a waste of time to have a positive check in, especially at no cost, that is great! I'm sure with you on Mr. L's choice!

and thank you, Canadisney Fly. May you have a lovely Tuesday, too, my friend

Bobbiwoz, good to see you! Pretty flower and cute little lamp, too. It reminds me a bit of our small lamp we use each evening.

It's a warm but overcast Tuesday morning here. Dad is off doing laundry followed by Ralph's. Later this afternoon, he will make a post office run and to FedEx to drop off my old phone so that Allstate will send us the $79 once they receive it. Do any of you see my missing ? I was sitting right here at the desk at the computer using the pen when I dropped it. I heard it fall. It sounded as though it fell very close by. It apparently has vanished! Dad didn't see it either! Maybe it'll turn up later. Should it not, dad bought a package of pens last week at Target so it's all good. Just very strange.

May each of you have a beautiful day with some extra joy in it!

 

[bobbiwoz]

@flyingdumbo127 that lamp came with the house when we bought it in 1998! It is cute and useful!

For the other DVC people here, you can understand that I am happy because this morning I was able to get into Moonlight Magic at Animal Kingdom on August 31! It’s been a few years since I have been at one of these experiences and I’m glad it worked today!

 

[bobbiwoz]

@Judique I love the camp Grammie reference too!

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Good morning! Just recovering from a long work stretch. Very busy but had some nice patients, thankfully. One of them made my weekend by telling me some compliments she’d heard about me, and that a lot of the staff thought of me as mother-like. People often don’t realize how far a small compliment like that can go when someone really needs to hear it, so that was pretty amazing. I think that God really does answer prayers.

I finally caught up on all the posts and now I forgot what I was going to say!

Thank you for your good thoughts for DD. She is finally feeling better, but she did have a trip to the doctor’s over the weekend when she had some concerning symptoms (from the Covid), but they told her it was just a part of the recovery period. I hope they’re right. She has been very good about protecting us. I felt bad for her having to quarantine alone in Mom’s apt., but she is back in our house now but is wearing a mask when out of her room, as per protocol. She’s tested negative for days now, but she just doesn’t want us to get sick. Testing for us is negative, and no symptoms. Of course, healthcare staff don’t have the luxury of recovering as long as most people do, so she’ll be going back to work this week, ready or not.

I loved the orange cup story, and could relate. I think I’ve mentioned here, I still haven’t gone through a lot of Mom’s things. It was too hard going right into the Covid ICUs after the stress of caring for her for so long, Hospice, and her loss. I think I am still not completely recovered from all of it. Work has been probably triply hard as the hardest days pre-pandemic. Hard to sustain. Everyone is leaving. I’m sticking it out but it’s not easy. Lots of pressure on more experienced nurses. But I digress… Another thing that reminded me of the orange cup was my last German Shepherd’s collar. We still have it hanging on our slider door. Sometimes I jingle it to get Toto to come in, lol. Idk, I guess there is some comfort to keeping things as is and not wanting to change them, even when you know things are different. And there’s nothing wrong with that if it helps bring peace. Every day that I’ve been out, a cardinal has shot across the road, which is comforting. The music in my car was also sentimental this weekend.

@Snowysmom. try to give the condo a fair shot. It sounds like you have already decided not to like it. I hope you become more comfortable there with time.

I thought this was very insightful, Carol. I was thinking something along the lines of is @Snowysmom unconsciously feeling disloyal to Chris by liking the new place? Hard to say for sure, of course, but something to consider. These feelings can be so complex. The other thing I remembered is that her younger DS, if I recall, was more helpful during the home cleanout and move. I wonder if it would be beneficial to be closer to him since he is more likely to a) get there easier (10 mins away) and b) be more of a nurturer, or simply more available, than the older DS? I think the way we feel when we’re worrying about something can be a lot different than when we actually experience the reality. I’m hopeful that Snowysmom will, slowly but surely, maybe even without noticing it at some point, come to love her new place. BTW, I hope your DIL and the baby recover without incident, too.

Grady was disappointed when I was going to work. The way he quizzically looked at me reminded me of when my kids were little and DD would cry as I was leaving. But he also learned I came back, so that was good. (Toto is way used to the routines even if he doesn’t like it much, lol.) He is really getting to love us all, and he is really lovey, loves to kiss and cuddle! Still has a lot of puppy in him, again confirming our suspicions he is not an older dog!

Have a good Tuesday, everyone!

 

[flyingdumbo127]

I also love the Camp Grammie, Judique! My own grandma is probably smiling to remember back to her days of caring for me as a young child. Thank you for all the loving care and fun you give to your own grandkids, my friend.

Bobbiwoz. I am not up on what Moonlight Magic means since I've never been to WDW. I am, of course, happy for you and wish you a fantastic time! I'll take a picture of our little lamp and post later.

are so loyal indeed, dear Pea and absolutely let you know when they want you to stay home, too! God absolutely sent you the reminder of His ever-present love through that kind patient! As always, with all my heart, I sure thank you for all the care you give to so very many. Please, remember, to sit for a spell, have some cuddly dog time, and relax! Take care of YOU! Continued prayer for your DD, as well.

I also meant to agree with what Carol so wisely wrote earlier. Snowysmom. Your new place is still brand new to you especially in terms of truly living in it. I believe with all my heart you will feel peace in time and just know whether it is right for you to stay or check into other options. I hope you are enjoying more ice cream, today

 

[Snowysmom]

@Pea-n-Me I am glad Grady is settling in well. He sounds like such a sweetie. And Toto is a good helper to help Grady learn the ropes.

@flyingdumbo127 I think pens go to a different universe when they fall off a desk or table. I hope it comes back and you find it. I still have ice cream left which is amazing but I plan to finish it up today. Maybe I will get some frozen yogurt on my next shopping trip.

I am trying to get used to the condo. I do believe that I have to get used to living alone and then figure out what I think about the condo and where to live. Living alone probably colors how I see the condo. It is probably better to be living near my younger DS as he does have more time to help me if and when I need it. Plus he has more time for me to come over and visit. But there are positives to being near older DS too such as it being an area where Chris and I do not have a history. I am a creature of habit and that has been sorely shaken over the past 9 months. My habits and routines are gone. I got into habits and routines at older DS's that now I miss. I am just wondering if I made the right decision to stay in the area where Chris and I had our life together. I am sure it is all part of the process of wondering where I am and where I am going. I will not make a quick decision about anything now. It was an quick, emotional reaction to say that I want to stay in this area. I did not even think about going elsewhere and maybe I should have at least given it some thought. My one current decision is to not make any more big decisions until after the Disney trip in October. That gives me time to see how I really feel about this place and living in this area. I may find that I settle in and I like it. If I find it is not working out at that point, the good news is I can make another decision. I do not regret selling the house so that is good.

So far today I have taken 3 walks around the place. I took one at 6:30 am, another at 10 am as break from work, and then another one when I finished work at 1. I plan on another one in the early evening. I hope to manage at least 2 miles this way and it is nice to get out and get fresh air. I was surprised that there are some people out walking at 6:30 am. I should go to Target and get a couple of waste baskets but I think that may wait until tomorrow. I just don't feel like driving around right now.

Older DS and family are on vacation this week. They started out in Amherst, MA and visited their Alma Mater, UMass. That is where DS and DDIL met and where they want their kids to go. Now they are in New Jersey. Today is the Aquarium in Camden and tomorrow Digger Land. That place has construction type rides for kids and adults. The grandkids love construction vehicles. My older DGD lost the second of her front teeth. No corn on the cob or apples for her for a while. I love the toothless grin she has now. Baby Sam is now over a month old. They took a picture of him at one month and then sent a picture showing all 4 kids at 1 month. It is so cute. Sam looks like such as old soul. He looks all knowing and just so chill.

Have a good rest of the day.

 

[AuntieMe3]

Happy Tuesday all.

It was an early day for me as I had to drive my dad an hour away for an early procedure. After they took him back, I ran over to a close by Target and Dollar Tree and now I'm just waiting for him to be done. I'm sitting in the car with the AC because it's HOT out and I didn't want to have to sit inside with my mask on, my glasses fog up too much. LoL Last time I had to bring him, it was nice enough to sit out in a little outside seating area they have with a smoothie and muffin from the coffee stand....way to hot for that today.

DH and I went for an evening swim last night at our friends house. I felt so cool and refreshed the rest of the night.

Loved the orange cup story Kirby shared. My "orange cup" is all the pictures we put up at my moms celebration of life.

I love pictures but there way to many to be displayed all the time but I can't get it together to take them off the magnet boards and frames to put them in an album. I encouraged everyone to take pictures they wanted, but the boards and framed pictures that were left are just stacked in our front room. My mom would've thought we were silly to still have them out. LOL I'll get to it, it just feels overwhelming right now.

Mona, I'm sure you're pen will appear after you open up another. LOL That's how it always works at our house.

@PollyannaMom I think I see the hummingbird, on left side? I love hummingbirds. My mom had a feeder right outside the window where she used to sit and sometimes it looked they were staring in at her.

Hope you all have a great rest of your day.

 

[PollyannaMom]

Yes, that's where the hummingbird is. It's kind of blurry because I zoomed in. We have had a couple of different kinds this year, and I'm hoping that Rose of Sharon blooms soon, as they seem to be looking for the flowers.

 

[easyas123]

We still have it hanging on our slider door.

We have our late pups collars hanging on the wall, they are comforting.

the Aquarium in Camden

Haven't been there in ages! Hope they enjoy it -

I had to drive my dad an hour away for an early procedure

Good luck to him, hope all goes well.


Foster pup had a ultrasound on his liver & kidneys this AM, Dr. called me in to meet with him re: the results instead of just telling me what the did or did not see, which is generally not good. Could be something like "this dog is not in good shape" or "this dog needs xyz treatment". Time will tell. I'm off to meet with him now. Fingers crossed on my end that it is a treatable situation.

BLT's for dinner-

 

[flyingdumbo127]

Easyas.

Thank you for the laugh, Snowysmom! I think you are absolutely right about pens! I do remember pre pandemic being the volunteer at church who would weekly go through the pews to be sure each had Bibles, hymnals, etc. including a working pen. There were many times when a pen must have ended up in someone's purse or pocket. However, there were also times when I'd find just a pen top! Now, who would want a pen minus the top? Someone! Wow what a fun trip you son and family are on. to you always.

Lol, AuntieMe3, well it hasn't happened yet, but the day is still early Right now, I have the old pen top besides the new complete pen. Maybe when I toss the top the rest will appear? Beautiful pictures and tribute to your mom, my friend.

How neat you have different types of visitors, PollyannaMom. Thank you for caring for them all.

Quiet afternoon here. I feel badly because dad is about to go out again to the post office and also to FedEx to drop off my old phone. I wish there were a way to be sure the new phone, whenever it comes, truly is new and not refurbished. I suspect my current phone that we are returning that was listed as a new truly wasn't. of course, there's no way to know that now. Keeping a good newthought and prayer.

 

[Kirby]

I could use a nap right now! I'm fighting it though. I've been doing real good for the last week getting to bed by 10 so I don't want to ruin it now.

Had a small group at Book Club last night. Some are out of town, others have Covid and some just didn't make it. We still had a good meeting. We read Black Roses by Jane Thynne. I didn't read much of it, about 39 pages at the beginning and about the last 20 page. Others in the group really liked it though some agreed it was a little slow getting started.

Received some sad news before going to my meeting last night. One of my cousins, Rodney, has kidney cancer that has traveled to his lungs and lymph nodes. He is currently in rehab for a stroke so they won't address the cancer until he gets out of rehab. His mom died of kidney cancer about 20 years ago. He has been deaf all of his life (used a hearing aid for awhile) and began going blind in his late teens/early 20's. He is a blind/deaf minister in Cincinnati, a year younger than me and an incredible man.

 

[flyingdumbo127]

all the extra, Dear Kirby. I am so sorry to hear about Rodney Please let yourself rest and take care!

 

[Breezy_Carol]

Good afternoon.

Have a few minutes before yoga. Did 4 hours at church today. Did get to meet our new minister who seemed nice.

I tried some Halo ice cream for the first time last night.

I had some for the same reason. I found the texture to be what I didn't enjoy. Some flavors definitely better than others.

Do any of you see my missing ?

It's with my wide tooth comb. Can't find it since I unpacked.

I think pens go to a different universe when they fall off a desk or table.

It's like when something falls between the seat and console in the car, that black hole.

My one current decision is to not make any more big decisions until after the Disney trip in October. That gives me time to see how I really feel about this place and living in this area. I do not regret selling the house so that is good.

A good decision.

I love pictures but there way to many to be displayed all the time

My kids got me one of those digital picture frames that cycles through pictures. I love it. You could do that. Mine allows them to upload pictures remotely, which is fun.

Off to yoga.

 

[PollyannaMom]

Speaking of ice cream, I tried some Halo ice cream for the first time last night. It's the least amount of points on Weight Watchers for ice cream. It was pretty decent, I got the sea salt and caramel. Not a huge fan of that flavor but the few bites I had were good. Definitely kept me from eating the entire pint at once!

I had some for the same reason. I found the texture to be what I didn't enjoy. Some flavors definitely better than others.

DH has that sometimes, and he says the same thing - that some flavors have the texture of that "astronaut ice cream" they sell as a gimmick. The strawberry is pretty good, though!

 

[lynxstch]

Finally I can get back on. Kept getting some weird 'server error update' thing for the last few hours. Both checkups went fine. Waste of time as far as I am concerned. My visit took a whole 10 min,,Mr L's took a little longer as she went over all his meds and questioned the Trulicity one,,she doesn't think he needs it either. But since he's now getting it free, he will take it till his next cardiologist appt.
Happy to read all the threads from today
@easyas123--saying prayers for your visit with the vet

Its so nice outside..we stopped at Subway and got a late lunch/early dinner. Had a b1g1 free coupon, and I don't think we have been there since Feb. Made my grocery list and gathered trash for tomorrow. Am going to water everything good, as we are going to have a few hot days with no rain in sight until the weekend

Have a nice evening all

 

[easyas123]

Received some sad news before going to my meeting last night

I’m sorry, I hope things go well for him in the rehab-

Have a few minutes before yoga.

I need to get back to a regular practice, I’ve been lazy…and I know how much better it makes me feel.

Good news from vet visit- what we are seeing is either side effects from all the steroids or possibly Cushing. If it’s the latter, it’s manageable. The former, then it will go away. Additional testing to determine in 4 weeks once he’s well and done of the prednisone. Whew!

 

[bobbiwoz]

@flyingdumbo127 Moonlight Magic means that DVC people will have the park to themselves after the other guests go home. Actually we can enter even before the park closes. The event is free if you were able to register.

The sign up was through a virtual queue. Amazingly, at 11 this morning you were given your number in line, and our lowest number was over 2000! Some people had a number even as high as 6,000 and got in.

There were three dates to fill. At least one person mentioned having over 10 electronics set to go in the queue!

DVC will have some free snacks for members, and there will be fewer people in the lines for the rides.

So, Tom and I are very happy we got in. We are going to WDW the last week of August and Tom will be getting a knee replacement surgery in September. I had bilateral knee replacement seven years ago and it was the best medical decision I ever made.