Now ice storms are a different story!! We get them all the time - and they can be a pain because it takes several days for the crews to clear and rebuild the power lines. Snowstorms are typical in winter, especially in the mountians, of course. We have had much less snow in the Piedmont for the last several years - but we can and do get 10 - 12 inches occasionally.
If you live in NC and hear a forecast of snow, better hightail it to the grocery store and get bread and milk - we stock up even if the forecast says "scattered flurries" and only a few flakes fall. And we drive like morons in it because we don't really know how to do it.
LOL! ITA! part of the problem is that Charlotte is not prepared for big snow because it happens so infrequently. I used to work for the county and there were sooooo many complaints it wasn't even funny. But, they just get snow so rarely that it doesn't make sense for them to amp up their budget to add all sorts of snow removal vehicles. I went to school in the mountains of NC and was very used to Snow, but no one else was, so I'd play dumb on snow days and act like I couldn't get to work just like everyone else.
As for over crowding, we never had an issue. Not with the schools or anything, but we were in a really nice area. We lived JUST barely in Union County so I went to Piedmont High school, but I had many friends who attended Butler and Providence and never had any issues with danger or overcrowding. As with MOST cities, I think it just depends where you are.
I never had an issue with traffic either. Now that 485 goes almost all the way around Charlotte it is much easier to get around, and the Light Rail helps too.
It's not a perfect city. I don't think any city is. but it is my favorite place that I have ever lived. I've lived in Memphis, TN, Greensboro, NC, Boone, NC, Burlington, NC, Ft. Lauderdale, FL, Miami, FL, Columbia, SC, and Orlando, FL. Charlotte beats them all by a mile.