A quick question-- is
free dining normally offered in November?? I know it's typically offered in September, when the kids go back to school; I wasn't aware that November was also a time when it could be expected.
We go over the summer, so free dining isn't an option for us.
But could I run another idea by you? Would you consider staying Deluxe?
Many of the Deluxes (pretty much all except AKL or the Wilderness Lodge) have a daybed, which enables a family of 5 to stay there. (My son, who is a good 6 inches taller than I am, is very comfortable on the daybed. It's a bed, not a cot.) The least expensive is probably a Garden Wing room at the Contemporary. And to be honest, the need for space isn't a big issue for us. As much as we love the amenities of the resort, we don't spend tons of time in the actual room-- we use it to sleep, shower, and change.
And, aside from all the other amenities (for us, Stormalong Bay and the ability to WALK to Epcot are both huge), staying Deluxe would mean that the "free dining" you get is the
DDP-- the one that includes one table service meal a day. (I'm pretty sure that the values give you the Quick Serve plan.)
Food at WDW is EXPENSIVE, so I would be all over Free Dining if it were a possibility for my family. (We're both teachers, so it simply won't work for us.) For my family of 5, dining is a big part of the Disney budget. (Then again, I really treasure the one table service meal we do each day. )
Also, take a look at POR-- a moderate--they have rooms with a Murphy Bed that will accomodate your 10 year old son. Not sure which dining plan they would get, but friends LOVED POR a few years ago.
Nope, your daughter wouldn't get room to herself. But she would be getting so many other things that it should at least enter into the discussion.