Amy,
Prayers being said for your nephew. We're an old pro at this open heart stuff...lol. DD15 had her first open heart surgery at 7 months of age, and her second was just last March.
Please, please, if there's anything I can do or general questions I can answer, please do not hesitate letting me know!!! I know it is a scary situation, but you'll be amazed at how quickly children rebound from open heart surgery. DD15 was out of the hospital in 4 days, back to school in 8 days, and tumbling in cheerleading in 6 weeks. Kids are soooo amazing!!!
Again, please feel free to drop me a line or forward this message on to nephew's parents, I'll talk to anyone anytime!
Keep us updated!
Alicia