I see I'm not the only one with these items but the one that bugged me the most was the ream of colored paper. A few years ago it appeared for the first time on my K and 3rd graders' lists. I think the district must've cut colored paper out of the budget and all the teachers panicked and asked for it. Well, that would mean each of my kids should've eventually brought home 500 sheets of colored paper that they used in class--a handout, a worksheet, flyer home to the parents, homework, something, right? I saw probably around a dozen sheets of colored paper used by my kids all year. And they bring everything home-there's easily 6+ sheets of paper in their folders every night.
For the past two years, they haven't asked for the colored paper again. Every teacher probably has about 20 reams sitting in their closet, I figure. Except now this year my youngest is going into 3rd and brings home the list asking for a ream of colored paper. I'm not sending it in. Took me 6 years of experience to know enough not to send it in, though. It's expensive--I got it through work for around $7 but it's normally twice that in stores.
Now I've got one going to middle school and I'm supposed to be buying 4 1.5 inch binders and one 1/2 inch binder. Well, I got 2 1.5 inch so far but I'm finding it hard to believe that she will be using them all. I know it's one per subject, but they will hardly fit in a locker and will definitely not fit in her bookbag. I'm going to have to buy her a golf cart to haul everything around--she also plays the drums.
My other pet peeve is twistables. They start requiring those in 3rd grade. Why? An 8-10 year old can use a regular crayon without breaking it. In 4th grade they wanted Twistable colored pencils. Those are hard to find on sale. I finally got buy one get two free at Toys R Us. She used one, I have one for #2 next year, and gave one to the collection our church does for supplies. But my older DD has them still in almost pristine condition so I could've used them for DD2.
As for communal supplies, they don't do it as much after the first couple years here, but my DD still manages to come home with her pencil box filled with exclusively pink and purple markers in varying brands and thicknesses. I guess they trade, even though we've labeled individual markers at times. For pencils, one year they had PaperMate EarthWrite brand on the dollar rack at Target. They sharpened and erased as well as Ticonderoga, and it was the only year she didn't run out of pencils. They were blue, green and red, not yellow, so it helped her keep track of them. I think most of the loss is not due to theft but just carelessness on DD's part. And I think the janitors just sweep everything into the trash at the end of the day. I'm going to try to find those pencils again this year.