I hear you and have been clear since my follow-up that I clearly misunderstood. To answer the question about loyalty, I felt like the gate agent/CSR could've taken a moment to say, "Here's the mistake - we're sorry for confusion. You can board when family boarding begins." She did none of that and, even as I understand a number of reasons why it could be that way, I felt she was super rude (I think subconsciously - she's dealing with a ton of people at the beginning of a long day). I personally feel (and in my own current job with Customer Service) that it's not terribly out of line to hear people, and then try to explain or fix (with any grace, kindness, compassion, etc one can find). I also don't fundamentally know what mattered to them since we weren't going to have to board with the C group (my base-level goal was 3 seats together and my preference was to be pretty far back so I didn't have to deal with people as much). It's not like it's a mad rush for first-class seats. But anyway, I hear you and thought I already said it but will reiterate - clearly my mistake. I apologize if trying to clear it up here (since I believe that when I asked about this situation earlier this year, I got the info that led me to my erroneous belief and I didn't want others to have to experience that) is a problem. But yeah, you definitely are 100% right.