Wow....
When I first started on this thread I was excited to meet some really nice people from all over. Different backgrounds, different races, different financial situations, different living arrangements ( married, single, having "partners", with and without children), different ages, but everyone sharing one common thing... the love of Disney.
Lately I have been reading the latest posts and I have to say that I am a bit concerned....

I don't really know anyone from this site as I haven't been a member for very long, but I was all into showing my love for this site. I went out and got the Mickey paint samples, I spent time putting my screen name on them and decorating them with glitter. I also went out and purchased glow stuff for the Glow Party. Not that any of this stuff cost much money or time, but I am begining to wonder if it was all a waste of time?
We are orginally from a rather large city, that becuse of danger as well as a significant language barrier, we never really reached out to others outside of our little "world". Now that we have moved to a smaller community (and a safer one) we have really tried to get out of our routine of keeping totally to ourselves. We have met tons of wonderful people and we are glad that we made the choice to be more "open"

However, that being said we are still rather "gun shy" and it took some convincing on my part to encourage DH to join me in the festivities of the 22nd. I thought it was all good clean Disney fun... just a bunch of people hanging out and finally meeting in person, having a good time, swapping Disney stories and enjoying some coctails as well as each other's company. Was I wrong? Now I am questioning if I really want to do this? Do I take a chance and "hopefully" end up having a wonderful time, or don't I? Or, worst case scenero, does this "Glow Party" go bad, with people arguing and bickering over the silliest things, and potentionally ruin our first night of Disney magic?

Please, someone, let me know what's going on. I would hate to waste any more time on this if my family isn't going to participate....
... this post was not ment to make anyone mad or blame anyone... It also wasn't ment to "fame the flames" or anything... I just want to make the best decision for me and my family.....