PMS in a Handbasket--Don't be afraid, just bring us food... Part 13

[1Prince2Princesses]

I really wouldn't be against adding another language, but switching just seems silly to me. What good would the two years of the language really do Zach if he were to switch? And why not discuss this with me first since he knows how I feel? Idiot is the nicest word that I can think of right now. I suppose that I should have gone to the meeting.

Men do this kind of stuff, then claim ignorance ("Oh, I forgot that we talked about this.") when we know damn well they didn't forget. It's an inborn, testosterone-linked, semi-conscious thing they do to try to regain a tiny bit of control in their lives once they're married. They hate that we're the bosses, and they do stuff like this just to try to get an upper hand, not realizing that we will prevail in the end anyway.

 

[paigevz]

Shovin' off early tonight. See ya tomorrow.

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Men do this kind of stuff, then claim ignorance ("Oh, I forgot that we talked about this.") when we know damn well they didn't forget. It's an inborn, testosterone-linked, semi-conscious thing they do to try to regain a tiny bit of control in their lives once they're married. They hate that we're the bosses, and they do stuff like this just to try to get an upper hand, not realizing that we will prevail in the end anyway.

Well, it may be a little more complicated than that. My DH has been having some memory issues lately--as in over a year. It might be just stress, but it might be something more. He's due for a follow-up MRI soon. The one last year detected a possible problem, but it could have been as simple as an old injury. We'll know when he has the new MRI if there's any change...

 

[bigmerle1966]

What 'bout me??????

 

[CEDmom]

Men do this kind of stuff, then claim ignorance ("Oh, I forgot that we talked about this.") when we know damn well they didn't forget. It's an inborn, testosterone-linked, semi-conscious thing they do to try to regain a tiny bit of control in their lives once they're married. They hate that we're the bosses, and they do stuff like this just to try to get an upper hand, not realizing that we will prevail in the end anyway.

I think they do it so you never ask them to go to another school meeting . My DH is quite the helpless one when he doesn't want to do something .

Tig, I'm sorry about your DH I just read your follow up. I hope it just turns out to be stress.

 

[disneymom3]

I just put the kiddos down. Man, they have been driving me nuts lately...I am feeling like a bad mommy...

Don't worry you are not a bad mommy. Bad mommies are the ones who....are not us. Seriously, everyone gets sick of their kids sometimes.

DM3 that is a tough situation. It doesn't quite seem like a situation for protective services (which would open a whole can of worms for HER too) but some intervention might be helpful. Does the FIL know and approve of the jerk? Maybe she could talk to her inlaws about helping to provide financial support while she separates from her dh and finishes her education. He needs to go to counselling alone, then bring her in, then bring the kids in for family counselling, THEN they might be able to work through it?

Unfortunately her MIL recently passed away. If she were still alive that would be an option, but her FIL thinks his son is just the be all end all. I thought her parents would help her out as they seem quite well off but she says they do not have the financial means to do so. This has been going on a long time and I honestly just want to shake her sometimes. Way back when she was preg with her first child there were issues that really bugged me. I feel worst for the kids though. They have no choice.

 

[1Prince2Princesses]

Well, it may be a little more complicated than that. My DH has been having some memory issues lately--as in over a year. It might be just stress, but it might be something more. He's due for a follow-up MRI soon. The one last year detected a possible problem, but it could have been as simple as an old injury. We'll know when he has the new MRI if there's any change...

Oh, geez. Now I feel bad. Hope it's nothing serious.

I think they do it so you never ask them to go to another school meeting . My DH is quite the helpless one when he doesn't want to do something .

This is true, too.
DH will put all the dishes in the wrong cabinets when I ask him to unload the dishwasher... as if the dishes haven't been in the same place for the last 4 years. He does not, however, have a problem finding the right dish if he's trying to EAT something.

 

[CEDmom]

This is true, too.
DH will put all the dishes in the wrong cabinets when I ask him to unload the dishwasher... as if the dishes haven't been in the same place for the last 4 years. He does not, however, have a problem finding the right dish if he's trying to EAT something.

Do we have the same husband ?

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Oh, geez. Now I feel bad. Hope it's nothing serious.



This is true, too.
DH will put all the dishes in the wrong cabinets when I ask him to unload the dishwasher... as if the dishes haven't been in the same place for the last 4 years. He does not, however, have a problem finding the right dish if he's trying to EAT something.

Don't feel bad...you didn't know. I pretty much have my head in the sand about this and try not to think about it. Kind of puts me over the edge. Hopefully the MRI will come out fine, but something is going on. He's also having testing for ADD (I almost typed in two S's instead if the D's, which would have worked had it not been for the word filter ), which the neuro dr suspects.

Nobody in my house knows how to load the dishwasher, which is a pet peeve of mine. Putting them away is usually not an issue, but I can't figure out why they can't load the friggin thing.

 

[bigmerle1966]

Nobody in my house knows how to load the dishwasher, which is a pet peeve of mine. Putting them away is usually not an issue, but I can't figure out why they can't load the friggin thing.

We have the exact opposite problem. We'll fill it no problem, unloading it on the other hand takes days.

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Goodnight I figured my DH would stop working by now and come to bed, but instead he'll wait until I'm dozing off and then come upstairs, which means that I won't be able to go back to sleep. I hate it when that happens!

 

[bigmerle1966]

Goodnight I figured my DH would stop working by now and come to bed, but instead he'll wait until I'm dozing off and then come upstairs, which means that I won't be able to go back to sleep. I hate it when that happens!

Night chicky poo!

 

[paigevz]

T, I'm sorry hon.

Do you know yet when the MRI will be?

 

[imsorry]

Morning - don't know yet if it's good.

I'll be back.

that is all.

 

[L107ANGEL]

Good morning sunshines
Tig call the Dr

 

[1Prince2Princesses]

Mornin'. I'm so tired. After the girls were up SO late last night, I can not believe that Molly woke up when I did at 5:45!

I'm going to get everyone off and then try to lay back down with her for a little bit and try to get her to go back to sleep. I'll be back.


Oh, don't forget to pop in here and help me out with another "decorating" problem! http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1373839

 

[imsorry]

A word about my coffee:

I like my coffee like I like my men: hot and strong.

Why does my coffee pot keep turning out lukewarm, weak swill?

 

[imsorry]

One more thing before I eat my toast:

HEY SHUG - HOW'S THE POOH WATCH GOING??????????
Will there be video on YouTube (remember Mono~Rail?)

 

[imsorry]

i need answers!!!!!!!!

http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=17300422#post17300422

 

[Briarmom]

A word about my coffee:

I like my coffee like I like my men: hot and strong.

Why does my coffee pot keep turning out lukewarm, weak swill?

My dearest Im, you must go to the store and get yourself a french press(Starbucks will have them). Grind your coffee beans coarsly, stir in boiling hot water from your teapot, and press. Voila! The best coffee evah!