DisneyBelle99
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So sorry for your loss. Dogs can convey love better than some people, so no wonder we feel a loss when they leave!
I appreciate the love, sympathy and support of each and every one of you. I didn't get a wink of sleep last night and there is just no joy in my life right now. I don't want to go anywhere and I don't want to stay home. I don't want to cook and clean but I don't want to sit here. I don't want to be around people yet I feel lonely being by myself. Today is no better then yesterday but one day at a time I guess.
maggs1035 that is so kind and generous of you. The way I am handling this I am wondering if I am dog owner material? I guess it's so raw right now I can't ever imagine being this attached to a dog again. I've had other dogs I've loved but never like this. This dog was always waiting when we returned home at the top of the steps. He also came and put his paws on our legs when he wanted a hug. We broke everyold dog rule and let him on the furniture and in our bed and everything else. I just can't even put into words, he was just one of a kind. A stray that I was afraid of and begged my husband to find someone to take him when he wandered into our yard that October day 8 years ago.
One thing I will do is not stop till I can let as many people as possible know that regardless of breed, age, vet or anything else...you can give your pet this medicine to help them...even with bloodwork done before hand to see if they are a good candidate and then it can kill them with no adverse side effects until it's already too late. Do a search on NSAIDS for dogs safe...even better NSAIDS killing dogs and see what you find. Pages and pages of dead dogs from loving humans trying to minimize pain from injury or surgery or arthritis. Side effects are one thing. Death is not a side effect. Not to me anyways. Thank you all again!![]()
I appreciate the love, sympathy and support of each and every one of you. I didn't get a wink of sleep last night and there is just no joy in my life right now. I don't want to go anywhere and I don't want to stay home. I don't want to cook and clean but I don't want to sit here. I don't want to be around people yet I feel lonely being by myself. Today is no better then yesterday but one day at a time I guess.
I The way I am handling this I am wondering if I am dog owner material? .
So very sorry for your loss. It's never fair or easy when they are taken from us & ALWAYS, ALWAYS too soon.
I've asked my Oliver & Sassy to watch for Mack on the Bridge & play with him.
Sending you tight hugs.
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a dog (especially a Boxer!) is losing a part of your family. I didn't want to tell you when I originally posted that my Boxer (Mickey) did not make it either. We got another Boxer after he left us because I couldn't stand the void in the house. Just like you, I hated coming home. Boxers have such strong personalities that the house just wasn't the same. We lost that Boxer (Damien) almost exactly a year ago and I still miss them both like crazy. The only difference this time is right now I don't want another Boxer - I want Damien. I haven't been able to get myself past that part of the grieving process. I know we will have another one and we will love him just as much, but I'm not ready yet. The only thing that gets me through is remembering the time we had with him and how much he added to our lives and our kids lives. As much as it hurts to lose them, I wouldn't trade what we gained from our time with them for the world. Sending prayers for you to get through this difficult time. I agree with what another poster said - the way you are handling this is exactly why you are meant to be a dog owner and any dog would be lucky to belong to you!![]()