meelee514 -
I know exactly what you are saying.
For my intimate wedding, I liked what was included in the package and I didn't feel the need to pay someone else an extra $500 or more.
Disney photographers are professional and do quality work. If you'd like to see some samples of what they do, you can look go to:
http://www.collages.net/disneyweddings/
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One of the biggest reasons that brides choose to use an outside vendor is to have the copyrights to their images immediately after their wedding. Disney doesn't give that to you, having a "hi-res" CD/DVD of your images is not included in Disney's package. And the cost is about $1000. However, I would strongly suggest that you talk to your coordinator or someone from Disney Photographic Services to see what options you have. Pre-purchasing the CD/DVD may be a cheaper option. It used to be the price went down significantly after three years, but I have heard that's not the case anymore. Also talk to Disney about the option of pre-purchasing your proofs! That will save you some money as well!
Having said that, I used Disney to photograph my wedding and I was thrilled!!! Our photographer was Ty and he was so friendly and nice and put me at ease about having my picture taken.
You can now request a photographer from Disney, and they will try to honor your request.
And, finally, regardless of who you choose to do your photography...TALK to them beforehand! They should be responsive to you all the time. You should be able to tell them what kind of pictures you like (style, poses, etc). You might want to have some samples from other weddings that you like. Tell the photographer what you like and what you don't...this will help you get the images you want to look at for the rest of your life!