wendyt_ca
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I have been slowly working to start my own photography business part time for a couple of years now. I have done a few photoshoots and the past couple of months have been prepping everything to start my own site and start actually doing it. But I am running into an issue with someone I used to be friends with but we no longer are because she is basically a nut case.
So Anyway about 2 years ago she asked me to do an outdoor photo shoot of her and said since I will do it without charging her that I can use the pictures for my portfolio and to promote my work when I get started. And She gave permission to put them on facebook at the time and they are still there completely open to anyone and she knows this. Well now she has decided in the past month she wants to also be a photographer and went out and bought a DSLR and so on and is putting up her own site. The other day she put up something on her facebook and is telling people I am copying her by trying to do photography (even though I had been doing it first - and people are telling her this which she is not happy about). I have just been ignoring it because I just want to do something I enjoy and if she wants to also do it then best of luck to her.
So now she is trying to be difficult and messaged her ex (who I am friends with) and told him to tell me that she does not give me permission to use the pictures I took of her because she does not want them online. Well they are already online as I stated before and she has no problem with them there. She is doing it just to be petty and try to hold me back. I only have so many photo shoots I have done and I really need them to display my work. They are incredibly flattering pictures of her and there is no real reason other than a grudge. If they were taken by any other photographer she would be fine with the use (she even let another photographer use boudoir pics of her on their site). I personally don't prefer having pictures of her on my site at all but I was ignoring my bad feelings (and these are stong) towards her because they are really good pictures and some of the ones I am most proud of. So I was putting personal feelings aside for now. She hadn't known yet I was using them so it came from pretty much no where and she is trying to do what she can to cause problems (this is what she is like). She knows that they are incredibly good and hates that she's the subject.
Anyway I could go on all day about the details behind it but I just included the back story cause I think it is needed in this case. I was planning to use them and really want to so I was wondering what my rights are. It kills me that something I love and am trying to enjoy is being brought down by someone else's negativity.
So Anyway about 2 years ago she asked me to do an outdoor photo shoot of her and said since I will do it without charging her that I can use the pictures for my portfolio and to promote my work when I get started. And She gave permission to put them on facebook at the time and they are still there completely open to anyone and she knows this. Well now she has decided in the past month she wants to also be a photographer and went out and bought a DSLR and so on and is putting up her own site. The other day she put up something on her facebook and is telling people I am copying her by trying to do photography (even though I had been doing it first - and people are telling her this which she is not happy about). I have just been ignoring it because I just want to do something I enjoy and if she wants to also do it then best of luck to her.
So now she is trying to be difficult and messaged her ex (who I am friends with) and told him to tell me that she does not give me permission to use the pictures I took of her because she does not want them online. Well they are already online as I stated before and she has no problem with them there. She is doing it just to be petty and try to hold me back. I only have so many photo shoots I have done and I really need them to display my work. They are incredibly flattering pictures of her and there is no real reason other than a grudge. If they were taken by any other photographer she would be fine with the use (she even let another photographer use boudoir pics of her on their site). I personally don't prefer having pictures of her on my site at all but I was ignoring my bad feelings (and these are stong) towards her because they are really good pictures and some of the ones I am most proud of. So I was putting personal feelings aside for now. She hadn't known yet I was using them so it came from pretty much no where and she is trying to do what she can to cause problems (this is what she is like). She knows that they are incredibly good and hates that she's the subject.
Anyway I could go on all day about the details behind it but I just included the back story cause I think it is needed in this case. I was planning to use them and really want to so I was wondering what my rights are. It kills me that something I love and am trying to enjoy is being brought down by someone else's negativity.