The trend -- especially at upper end hotels -- is pet friendly. WDW is absolutely behind the times.
Stay at the Universal Hotels -- they are nicer and better priced than Disney hotels -- and Fido is welcome.
The pet friendly hotel threads always bring out a bunch of posters with allergies and whatnot. But, the Loews hotels seem to do fine with their pet friendly policy. The W Hotels here in NYC permit pets (they even have doggy dishes with food and water at the hotel entrances).
We stayed recently at The Broadmoor, one of the truly spectacular resorts in the nation. They are pet friendly and it was great.
Many Marriott Residence Inns are pet friendly.
We often stay at the Doubletree at Dana Point in Southern California. We take our yorkie and it's great.
As, I said, WDW is most definitely behind the times!
The difference is that those are pet friendly HOTELS...where people stay shorter lengths of time and have access to the city, parks etc where pets are readily permitted. Disney is a privately owned resort. People stay for longer periods of time and they property does not allow pets outside the kennels. Whether or not people feel this is "fair" it is Disney's RIGHT.
Even Universal is a much smaller destination than WDW. I've rarely heard of anyone doing Universal for a week.
I have absolutely NOTHING against pets. I love them and I want one of my own once I move out. However, I would never consider bringing my pet to WDW as it isn't fair to the pet IMO.
I've said if before, I'll say it again. It absolutely blows my mind that there are NO pet friendly resorts on the Disney property. This is my one and only, but VERY big complaint about the property. I don't have kids and don't want them, but the very biggest stressor about this trip was what to do with our 9 year old Lab. We have always said, if he's not welcome, we're not welcome. It's not easy and we've had to sacrifice sometimes, but where we go, he goes.
There is just no good reason WDW shouldn't have a real pet friendly resort, especially as animal oriented they are, lol. Theme it after Lady and the Tramp, the Aristocats, Oliver and Company, Fox and the Hound, etc. Pets can stay in the room at nite with their owners and in a state of the art kennel attached to the hotel while the humans are in the parks. There are plenty of business models to go by using big play areas, web cams, etc. WDW is so into customer service, they could really set the gold standard for this. Being marketed toward the pets are family crowd, people would know that this is the resort where pets stay and could choose not to if they wanted. This group also includes the young adults with no children crowd who usually have plenty of money and are willing to spend it to make their pets happy. This makes the owners happy.
BTW - my parents are very excited to watch our pup (the grandpup!) for the week we are gone, but it still involves one of us driving up to eight hours out of our way to drop him off and then pick him up. Disney is squandering a HUGE opportunity here. WAKE UP WDW!!
I can completely understand why Disney doesn't allow pets in their resorts.
1. The are a privately owned resort. It is their right to refuse ANY kind of patronage. They can remove disruptive guests, they can refuse admission to guests, they can refuse pets etc..
2. They must account for the comfort of the status quo, a vast majority of guests would never consider travelling with a pet, even devoted pet owners. When you have a destination like Disney where they see MILLIONS of people stay in their hotels every year they must account for the average not the exception. Where does it stop? Dog Owners? Cat Owners? Bird Owners? Reptile Owners? Rabbit Owners? Where do you draw the line when you open pandora's box?
3. They need to consider logistics for maintaining their properties. Most of the pet-friendly hotels in major cities or in Europe aren't going to have the pets left in the room all day. As you said, in many European cities it is perfectly normal to see dogs in shops, at restaurants etc. So they may stay in the room in the evening with their owner, but they are out for the day. This allows housekeeping to keep the rooms neat and clean and well maintained.
However, Disney does not allow pets at their restaurants, stores or parks. So that pet it inevitably pent up in a room all day. As many posters have mentioned dogs get excited, nervous or pine for their owners in unfamiliar locations. This could result in a greater number of accidents (soiling the room) or destructive behavior that is common in larger dogs such as Labs when left to their own devices for long periods of time.
4. I truly think Disney feels that the kennels are the most humane solution. The pets are given the proper level of attention there. They are walked, allowed to play, can socialize with other dogs and their owners can visit them each night.
I will probably be flamed for my last comment, and I will point out in advance that I have had NUMEROUS pets that I have adored. I have mourned their loss, felt their emotion, seen the unconditional love...but I really and truly do not understand the "fur-baby" or "fur-children" trend. I never will.
I will join those that do not understand pet owners that want pet-friendly resorts. I really don't think they are "pet-friendly" at all. I think it is for the comfort of the owner, not the comfort of the pet.