We always eat our big meal of the day at lunchtime...lunch prices are cheaper than dinner prices.
There are many places that are worth paying OOP, as we have never used the dining plan. For our family of four and the way that we structure our meals, it simply is more costly to use the dining plan.
Some of our favorite places are Bomas, the Flame Tree BBQ, the 50's Prime Time, the Plaza, the Liberty Tree Tavern, and our kids "can't miss meal"...the Hollywood and Vine...
Another favorite is the Hoop de Doo Revue...if you are looking for a dinner show...
We eat breakfast in our room, carry snacks with us and eat lunch between 1-2 PM...If we get hungry later, we grab counter service, or eat at the food court when we get back to our resort.