Of course your experiences are just as valid. But come on. Do folks here (maybe even you) use late FPs? Same thing. There's a "rule", that is currently unenforced, that says you're not supposed to. But people do and Disney allows it everyone is perfectly okay with it. To the point where people would really begin to protest if Disney started enforcing return times. There's a "rule" that says that people going to
MNSSHP aren't supposed to enter until 7pm, but Disney allows party guests to enter at 4pm instead.
So the "rules" about FPs and party entrance are also really more of a suggestion. Same thing. Why should FP users and party goers be allowed to work the system but flash photo people be banned from the parks? Do you think the Guest base as a whole would be willing to give up early entry on party night and late FP use if it meant no more flash photos on rides? I wouldn't.
You've mentioned valid opinions ... I believe my enforcement questions are
also valid. I'd be interested to know how you think a "no flash photography" rule could be fully and effectively enforced. Confiscate cameras on the way in? Stop the ride every time someone takes a flash and escort them off? Loudly announce over the music / dialogue of the ride "No Flahas Photography!" Seems to me that would be just as harmful to the experience. And are Disney's resources better spent monitoring flash photos on rides than say, keeping bathrooms clean or having a few more people up at GR? I'm only asking because you seem so sure it's possible and maybe I'm totally missing an obvious solution.
Of course, by that time, every single person screaming was probably egging the girls on. Nothing, short of stopping the ride and pulling the girls with the camera, would have solved it. My guess is that every time they heard someone yell "No Flash Photography!", they gleefully took another picture just to be snotty.