LindaBabe
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Holly,
I'm sorry you are going through a rough patch.
I want to take a minute and point out that you are in fact fighting two halves of yourself.
Let's give them names, shall we? The first is Right Now (rn for short) Right Now you want to eat that something, whatever it is. The other half is Long Term (LT) your over all health and well being. It turns out the LT is controlled by a lot of decisions made RN, and that is something to keep in perspective.
When faced with a choice, try to look at the long term, and view the choice in light of it getting you where you want to go.
I'm also in favor of printing out good quality prints of Lynne in CC and in her formal gown, and hanging them in your place of temptation (kitchen, dinning room). Those are pictures of a woman who was focused on LT, and got there!
Keep trying! You can do this, I know it!!!!
Katherine
WHAT AN AWESOME explaination! I'm going to copy it over to the other diet thread I'm on in the creative community, if I may, Katherine?
Why does it seem celebrations involve food and alcohol.
I find this interesting too - The government and health care industry have declared open season on obesity but what have they given us for help? The health insurance companies won't pay for gym memberships or other wellness activities. TV is totally loaded with commercials for food - NONE of it good for you. Magazines show oversize portions. Shows on the travel channel - 5 hours the other day of the words biggest and best - fried chicken, ribs, burgers, sundaes - ALL the things that are bad for you. EVERY family celebration, whatever one's religion or national origin revolves around food, every business or social function in evitably includes food.
So let me get this right, I have to get skinny BUT I have to eat to live? My doctor says I have to Work out BUT it can't be a prescription covered by my medical insurance and I can't even pay for it with my flexible spending medical account? Socializing is good for my mental health, but I'm not supposed to eat there? Does anybody see a disconnet here????!
This weekend, I went to the scrapbooking crop. Crops are well known for three things - scrapping, chatting, and FOOD, none of it good for us. I took a cooler with meatloaf, grilled chicken, veggies & dip, deviled eggs, apples and cheese, and a low carb no sugar coffee cake. The hostess in our section had donuts, bagels, and ordered a 4 foot grinder. Another woman baked cookies and brownies, and an antipasta baked crusty thing.
How did I do? eh. Well, the coffee cake was a hit with everybody - and totally disappeared. A small piece of the antipasta shot my sugar and said don't eat any more of me, I'm dangerous! I took the filling out of my piece of the sub and put it on a whole wheat flat. It was hard throwing that nice big Italian bread away, but eating it wasn't worth the price. Over the course of the weekend, I had 3 small italian almond cookies, but I avoided the vendor of home made donuts, and ice cream sundays. On the whole, I'd give myself an A or A-. I stuck with my eating plan 90% of the time except for the cookies. The antipasta was a learning experience - I probably should have known better.
Following on to what Katherine said, Here's a piece from Margrette Fletcher, Registered Dietician