Palin breaks with McCain on gay marriage

Is sexuality a basis for being a "protected class"?
It is in some states, and many believe that morally it should be in all. Remember that the specification of protected classes is by statute, not codified in the Constitution, so it can be expected to change over time as society progresses.

The Full Faith and Credit Clause of the Constitution gives the federal government the power to specify to the states how each legal act, executed in another state, should have effect in others (as per the Debates on the Adoption of the Federal Constitution). It is therefore within the purview of the federal government to require all states to treat any other state's same-sex marriage as as valid as any marriage within their own state. And again, many believe that there is a compelling public interest that that should be the case.
 
Again, I approach this from a standpoint of it being a choice to be homosexual. For anyone who doesn't believe it is, I wouldn't expect them to agree with me, as many on here don't. Based on the different beliefs we have, one group of us must be wrong (either it is a choice, or it's not; there's no in between). I think the other group is, the other group thinks I am. I don't hope to convince you, and won't be convinced by you. I'm just giving my opinion. You can disagree, make fun of it, whatever makes you happy. It's still the way I believe, and while there are many people who agree with your opinions, there are many who agree with mine, too.
But what led you to believe that it is a choice? Why would you think that? If you are approaching that question "from the standpoint that it is a choice", you will find ways to justify your preconceived notion that it is a choice.

I will tell you exactly why I believe there is no choice. I'm a heterosexual woman. I'm attracted to men, and only men. No offense to lesbians, but the thought of me personally being with a woman is extremely unappealing to me. I didn't choose to be this way, it's just they way I am.

It would only follow logically that gays and lesbians naturally have an attraction to the same sex, because if they were like me, why on earth would they choose something that is so unappealing to them?

I believe it is possible; easier for some (much easier), harder for others (much harder), but possible. Depends on what you're willing to give in to.
Give in to? I don't understand. What would someone have to "give in to"? That seems to imply that people have an innate attraction to their own gender that they must have the willpower to resist in order to remain heterosexual. Or am I misunderstanding?

While I wholeheartedly agree that some people have an innate attraction to their own gender, I myself, don't. That's why I believe that most gays and lesbians don't have that innate attraction to the opposite gender. Unless of course, they are actually bisexual.

Confirms your odd, which I already thought.
Odd? How would that be odd? My understanding is that bicker is a heterosexual man, attracted to women. Why would that change just because a doctor changed his physical appearance?

Why does anyone think THEIR opinion is more valid than anyone else's? Because it's there opinion, and they (usually) have reasons to support that opinion. We disagree - that won't change. I'll fight to have my opinions heard and legislated, as will you. No different, other than we differ on what we're fighting for (or against). If you say otherwise, it means you inherently think you're right. Of course, so do I, yet you say it's just my opinion. See the circle?
Well, on the subject of their own sexual orientation, of course the opinion of each individual person is more valid than anyone else's. You cannot logically claim to know more than I do about how I came to be a heterosexual (or a lesbian about how she came to be lesbian), any more than you can logically claim to know why I don't like cats, or why I love hockey.
 
But the difference is that laws made based on what you think is right are laws that will affect an entire portion of the population, but will never have any affect on you. So why do you think that you should have a say in that (aside from your self-righteous idea that everyone should have to live according to your opinion)?

By fighting for what I think is right, I'm not imposing anything on you. I'm not forcing you to enter into a union with someone of the same sex. You can go on living your life exactly how you want to. I'm not trying to keep you from doing that.
::yes:: :thumbsup2 This is really the most important aspect to remember.
 
Remember that the specification of protected classes is by statute, not codified in the Constitution, so it can be expected to change over time as society progresses.

Thanks, I did know that, and hence the question. And really the answer to that question is probably the basis of any outcome to the overall question.
 

I have feelings for a woman everyday - because I'm a man. And I have feelings for my wife. Wait, are you under the impression that I'm a woman? If so, you can see where false assumptions get you... Yes, as a Christian, I have to daily suppress sinful things I want to do, b/c I know they're wrong. Happens all the time. People struggle with different sins - some might be eating, some might be alcohol, some might be overspending, it runs a wide range. It is a daily struggle to stay faithful to God's Word - He didn't say it would be easy. But it is rewarding.

Yes, I don't struggle with this particular area of sin myself. But I know others who do, unfortunately.

I'm sorry that I mistook you for a woman. My bad...

So let's look at this from a different angle...
Let's go with your opinion that it's a matter of choice.
Are you out to ban all of the things in the country that YOU think are bad choices?
So after you've accomplished your goal of banning same sex marriage, what's next? Will you ban overeating? How about overspending? Drinking alcohol? Divorce?
Or are those just little sins? And same sex marriage is a big one?

I have an idea! :idea:
How about you do YOUR best to live a life of faith, and then let us live our lives without the imposition of your religion? In other words, have your faith. Have your opinions. They're yours and I respect that 100%.
But keep them out of the laws that affect me and my family.


Where have I judged you? I've just said I disagree with you. You disagree with me - are you also judging me?

You judge me when you say that my "lifestyle choice" is a sin.

I'm not judging you. I'm letting you know that it hurts me when you think that your opinion is so much more valid than mine that you would impose your religion on society as if we should all have the same beliefs as you do.
 
While I disagree with RickNYC on this issue, I do respect his ability to disagree in an agreeable tone.

Didn't want to quote your entire message.

But here's the thing. I absolutely 110% disagree with absolutely every single thing you've said on this entire thread. You just can't hear the tone of my "voice." Believe me, there'd be finger wagging dude. LOL.

You think sexuality is a choice and as a result of your own faith in God, you were able to choose to be heterosexual. What irks me is how you once again readily admit that, you are trying to negate that you had, in the past, never said it was an easy choice. You simply said through prayer, force of will, and strong spirit, you were able to make the choice to be heterosexual. Now to me, if you had to pray to God to be heterosexual and to pick that path in life, that aint easy.

All that notwithstanding, if prayer did in fact help you and allowed you to choose the straight path (pun fully intended), I will pray with you that you will continue to stay on that path because you now have more than just yourself and your relationship with God to account for. You now have a wife and children. So continue on your road and live your life as you see morally fit. Statistics have shown that men in your position live a constant uphill battle and most fail. I hope for the sake of your family you're not one of them.
 
Wanted to add in a separate post that using the Word of God as a means to judge others is the single most sinful, morally wrong, reprehensible thing to do. If you're going to judge others because it's simply your opinion, then do so and I respect it. But to use God's Word to do so is cowardly.

The Bible is not a weapon.
 
Wanted to add in a separate post that using the Word of God as a means to judge others is the single most sinful, morally wrong, reprehensible thing to do. If you're going to judge others because it's simply your opinion, then do so and I respect it. But to use God's Word to do so is cowardly.

The Bible is not a weapon.

Depends on WHAT you believe about the Bible, Rick.

I'll leave the topic - I know nobody on here agrees with me. My point wasn't to garner agreement, it was to state my opinion. I have done so. Virtually all on here don't agree (shocker). I wasn't expecting anyone to. But it doesn't change my opinion.

God bless.
 
Wanted to add in a separate post that using the Word of God as a means to judge others is the single most sinful, morally wrong, reprehensible thing to do. If you're going to judge others because it's simply your opinion, then do so and I respect it. But to use God's Word to do so is cowardly.

The Bible is not a weapon.

And yet history shows us that it is the biggest psychological weapon ever invented.
 
Depends on WHAT you believe about the Bible, Rick.

I'll leave the topic - I know nobody on here agrees with me. My point wasn't to garner agreement, it was to state my opinion. I have done so. Virtually all on here don't agree (shocker). I wasn't expecting anyone to. But it doesn't change my opinion.

God bless.

So you're saying that you have special dispensation for God Himself to use His Word to place judgement on others? And as a result, you are entitled to use the Bible as a weapon?

I would love to see the version of the Bible you have in your house and compare it to the one that on the shelf next to my bed. I mean, yours does have the Golden Rule? And you have a few folks casting stones somewhere in there I would assume. Or is your Bible different?
 
And yet history shows us that it is the biggest psychological weapon ever invented.

Psychological nothing. Millions through the centuries have been murdered because of it. Yet, I still do love my own copy and keep it next to me, on the little shelf of my bedside table. Go figure.
 
Psychological nothing. Millions through the centuries have been murdered because of it. Yet, I still do love my own copy and keep it next to me, on the little shelf of my bedside table. Go figure.


I think I have about 25 of them, some were different versions I bought, some were gifts, and some were passed down to me.
 
I didn't struggle with it - I chose to remain the way that God created me, rather than fight against it and choose to live in a way that He did not create me.



As I said above, I chose to remain the way God created me. Wasn't hard.



No, I weighed the benefits of following God's order for my life vs. not following it, and that made it easy for me. Since He created us as male and female, with natural attractions to the opposite sex, it wasn't hard for me to continue as such.

Again, I approach this from a standpoint of it being a choice to be homosexual. For anyone who doesn't believe it is, I wouldn't expect them to agree with me, as many on here don't. Based on the different beliefs we have, one group of us must be wrong (either it is a choice, or it's not; there's no in between). I think the other group is, the other group thinks I am. I don't hope to convince you, and won't be convinced by you. I'm just giving my opinion. You can disagree, make fun of it, whatever makes you happy. It's still the way I believe, and while there are many people who agree with your opinions, there are many who agree with mine, too.

You truly do not understand what its like to be gay. Do you honestly think I fought AGAINST being straight?? I fought to BE straight for so many years! I can't be what God did not make me. And I can tell you with 100% honesty that He did not make me straight.
 
Depends on WHAT you believe about the Bible, Rick.

I'll leave the topic - I know nobody on here agrees with me. My point wasn't to garner agreement, it was to state my opinion. I have done so. Virtually all on here don't agree (shocker). I wasn't expecting anyone to. But it doesn't change my opinion.

God bless.

I honestly don't think that anyone here needs you to agree with them.
In fact, I'll venture to say that most here couldn't really care less about your opinions.
What we do care about is our rights. And when your opinions become laws that deny us rights, then we care.
So again, have your faith, have your opinions. Own them with pride. But keep them out of the laws that affect me and my family.
Thanks.
God Bless. :flower3:
 
So you're saying that you have special dispensation for God Himself to use His Word to place judgement on others? And as a result, you are entitled to use the Bible as a weapon?

I would love to see the version of the Bible you have in your house and compare it to the one that on the shelf next to my bed. I mean, yours does have the Golden Rule? And you have a few folks casting stones somewhere in there I would assume. Or is your Bible different?

Nowhere did I say anything about a "special dispensation", Rick. As I mentioned, it all has to do with WHAT you believe about the Bible. I could say all kinds of other stuff that everyone on here would view as "preachy", and for that matter "wrong", so as I've said, I'll bow out.
 
I do think it is time for some to agree to disagree and call it a thread.

As a fellow poster says, you do not need to agree with a persons opinion... but they still have a right to have that opinion.

Good day all
 
Well, I said,

Originally Posted by RickinNYC
Wanted to add in a separate post that using the Word of God as a means to judge others is the single most sinful, morally wrong, reprehensible thing to do. If you're going to judge others because it's simply your opinion, then do so and I respect it. But to use God's Word to do so is cowardly.

The Bible is not a weapon.

And you posted in response:

Depends on WHAT you believe about the Bible, Rick.

So what exactly are we supposed to garner from your own words? In interpreting what you stated, you are basically saying that from what you yourself believe in the Bible, then you are can use the Word of God as a means to judge others. I don’t see any hidden meanings and I’m a fairly intelligent person so I don’t think I misread your statement. If I'm wrong, then please feel free to point that out.
 
I guess we won't get any more answers...:confused3
 
So as promised, I have been mulling this over, I am still not sure what I think yet, but am going though it in my head and am now going to sort of do the net equivalant of talking out loud to myself.

My first thoughts are seperate but equal is not equal, this is born out to me by the images I have seen my entire life, such as ragged railroad coaches with substandard food for the blacks and nice cars with good food for the whites, crappy little bathrooms for the blacks and decent ones for the whites etc.. There was no attempts made to actually make things equal, one was given superior stuff to the other.

The law requires things to be equal. That was obviously not the case, at least to my eyes. So obviously to me, the seperate but equal, did not give equal.

I then move on to this part "I do not understand how a committed textualist (which is the philosophy it seems you are espousing) could accept the Brown decision (or Harlan's dissent in Plessy). The plain meaning of the words "equal protection of law" have nothing to do with psychological consequences or the badge of inferiority which is experienced by those who fall under it." And have a question. Why would you say that under a strict constructionist point of view that equal protection under the law would not mean equal protection from psycholgical consequences? If the whites were protected from that, should not also the blacks be protected from it as equal protection?

So, I am not seeing an issue with the Brown Case, or Harlen's disent in Plessy from a constructionist point of view. But I admit that my views are also coming from someone that was born at the very end of the civil rights movement and by the time I was old enough to understand things, this was the way it was, so I will forever look though those glasses.

Well I feel the same way about it being absolutely obvious that segregation can never be part of real equality. But I do wonder if that only seems obvious to those of us looking at the issue today because we have seen (either through our own experience or through history) the civil rights movement and hindsight after all is 20/20. My guess is that in hindsight issues of gay rights and equal protection are going to look very similar a few generations from now. So in general I am very suspicious of textualism or any kind of strict constructualism. I think what we take to be the plain meaning of a word or phrase is going to be heavily influenced by the context in which we live.

(So I'm wondering, for instance, if we gave people from another country/culture which has not had racial segregation problems like ours the text of the 14th amendment and then described de jure segregation to them and explained that it treated all races equally in all tangible ways, would they find that segregation to go against the words in the 14th amendment?)

I find the concern for psychological consequences to go beyond textualism because I just don't think that our normal understanding of "equal protection of law"--at least, our understanding had we not already known of the Brown and Plessy decisions--wouldn't include concern about psychological consequences. So I think the justices went beyond the text in considering that.


Now to the last part... This is where I am struggling the most, and maybe I am not understanding, maybe I have not evolved enough, who knows. Perhaps you can help me to see your side, perhaps not.

First as I have said all along, I am in favor of Civil Unions, so I am not fighting against you on that, I am just trying to wrap my head around this current discussion.

So questions. I can not marry or form a civil union with another male at this time either, so are you being treated unequally, if the law is applied to everyone? Is sexuality a basis for being a "protected class"? If you go with it being equal because no one can marry/form a civil union with their own sex, are there compelling reasons to change that law?

So in the case of marriage/civil unions being only available to male-female couples I think the same kind of psychological consequences/badge of inferiority is at work. It's true, of course, that both gay and straight people are equally banned from marrying someone of the same sex. So in the same way it was also true that black and white people were equally banned from riding in the railway car assigned to the other race. So in both cases, on the face of it, any particular individual is treated equally by the law regardless of whether they are gay or straight or black or white.

But as you said regarding the race cases, it's absolutely clear--to us now at least--that we have to look closer than just "on the face of things." The laws at issue in Plessy and Brown clearly send the message that blacks are inferior to whites, and in this case of school children this message was playing out in real psychological consequences. I think laws which deny same-sex couples marriage or civil unions do the same thing (we can see this, of course, by looking at the kind of rhetoric that many opponents of giving same-sex couples civil unions/marriage--the idea of "protecting the institution of marriage" seems pretty similar to the idea of "protecting the white race from impurity"). I think this is basically what the CT court said in the recent decision— that the segregation of heterosexuals and homosexuals in marriages vs. civil unions created a clear--psychological I assume--harm to homosexuals.) My guess is that there is probably psychological research out there which could show similar psychological affects for couples (and children of couples) who are denied marriage/civil unions on account of their being a same-sex couple.

Now the protected class issue does throw a wrench in things when it comes to the level of scrutiny necessary to justify a law that appears to treat different groups unequally. As Bicker said the SCOTUS has not yet said that sexual orientation is the basis for a protected class (I say yet because if I were a betting person, I'd definitely bet on this happening in the future.) In terms of the states, the courts have said different things. I believe some state supreme courts have said that sexuality should be treated as a suspect class but others haven't.

If sexuality is a suspect classification, then laws which specifically affect gay people will be held to a higher level of scrutiny--either strict (like race) or intermediate (like gender). If it's strict scrutiny, then the law can stand only if it must have be aimed at protecting a compelling state interest. If sexuality isn't a suspect classification, then all that is necessary is for the state to have a rational basis for the law. And intermediate scrutiny requires something in between.

I think it is pretty clear that the compelling state interest test can't be met when it comes to marriage/civil unions. The most that anyone has really offered to try to justify these laws is an appeal to tradition (marriage has always been defined as one man, one woman--which is clearly false anyway); but tradition isn't a compelling state interest.

The rational basis test is pretty easy for a state to pass, but I believe in the NJ marriage/civil union supreme court case, the court couldn’t even find a rational basis for deny marriage/civil unions to gay couples. The state basically admitted that it had no reason for denying those rights except tradition, and the court did not accept that basis as rational. (In rejecting it, they specifically pointed out that it was not rational to allow gay people to adopt children, to raise their biological children, to have foster children, yet then subject those children to significant disadvantages which come about because their parents are unable to be married.)

Personally I agree with the NJ court that the denial of civil unions cannot pass the rational basis test. I’m not sure if denial of the word marriage itself (if completely equal civil unions were available) would fail to pass the rational basis test. But I also think that it’s quite clear that sexuality should be counted as a suspect class. I think it has just as good a claim to this as sex does, which is already a suspect class and is subject to intermediate scrutiny. And I don’t think that denial of either civil unions or even the word marriage itself can stand on the intermediate scrutiny test—the state just doesn’t have “an exceedingly persuasive reason” why it must only give mixed sex couples certain rights or why same-sex couples should have to have their relationships recognized without the word that the mixed-sex couples get. It seems like there is still a stamp of inferiority there like that at issue in Plessy and Brown.

Please feel free to respond to my ramblings, which is what they currently are as I work though this.

I've added more of my own ramblings (mostly in red above) to make what is now an amazingly long post!


Of course, I agree with your earlier proposal that we should just get rid of marriage altogether and let people have civil unions regardless of sex/sexuality. That would avoid all of these court cases, and it’s something that I’ve seen people from totally opposite ends of the political spectrum say they support. But I think there is *much* less likelihood of that happening than of gay marriage/civil unions for same-sex couples just continuing to be legalized in more and more states. I just don’t think any politician on any side of the aisle is brave enough to get up there and say “there will no longer be a state institution of marriage.”
 















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