Well, Everyone, please forgive the messes all over. We are in the final stages of four years worth of budget home renovation, getting ready to sell and well, things get messy.

So please ignore the mess while looking at the actual cabinets...
Here is a good picture of the before look of the bathroom cabinets. Never mind the bow on the photo, I have a young man in the house

...Honey oak that had faded to a rather ugly orange after 20+ years:
We removed the wallpaper in the powder room, framed out the mirror with molding, added wainscotting, replaced the vanity top, replaced the faucet, replaced the light fixture, and painted the cabinet. This was the first cabinet I attempted. It came out awesome, IMO:
The wood had gotten to bare so well, that I decided to give staining a try.
We removed the wall paper, replaced the vanity top with a tile counter with drop sinks, replaced the faucets, split the single hollywood style light fixture into two, replaced the builder mirror with framed mirrors, replaced the hardware, and added the contemporary drawer/door pulls from Ikea on the false fronts of the sinks for hanging hand towels.
I really wanted darker cabinets in my bathroom. The picture will show you how unevenly these cabinets took the stain. If you look closely at the very tops and the very bottoms of the flat inset panel (where it was very hard to scrub with the grain), you can see how the stain color is influenced by the previous stain. I admit that this cabinet doesn't photograph well, and highlights what I think sanding with a power sander could fix, which it did in the kitchen, but just realize that in person, the effect is really pleasing. I see how I would have done it differently, and did in the kitchen, BUT, it still is much improved on the old orange:
With staining, here's what you have to do if you have the "paper" toe kick and side of the cabinet. We got the unfinished toe kick in the kitchen section at Lowe's ($8) for an 8' piece and we got 1/8" oak plywood to cover the end panel. This new wood stained beautifully. It helps the overall look in person.
The kitchen came out AWESOME, if I say so myself. We took down soffit cabinets between the kitchen and breakfast area. Took out the soffit. Replaced all the wall cabinets with 42" cabinets. New countertops. New sink. New faucet. New tile backsplash. New electrical outlets and plates. We refinished the base cabinets to match the new wall cabinets. The new wall cabinets were "natural oak." I decided not to stain the base cabinets at all, but sanded them much better than the master bath and poly on top.
Here's how orange they were. I took this the day the new countertop was installed (which explains why the counters are so clean! LOL):
Here's the refinished product:
editted to add: btw...I haven't finished the toe kick in the kitchen! You can see the raw wood there, waiting for the magic that the poly coat produces.
I hope this helps everyone in their decision making processes!! It isn't really hard to do. It just takes a bit of elbow grease and putting up with some hand and finger cramps. Talk about working out your arms and shoulders! Your forearms will hurt too. LOL.
Again, I don't want to totally hijack the thread, I just want to contribute. It a budget way to refinish your cabinets with a whole lot of labor and very little expense, so if anyone has any specific questions to ask or want to talk the process, please PM me!