Our "Trip of a Lifetime!" (I mean "A Fat Girl's Vacation!") AKL from 1/07-1/16

[daisylove]

Wow. Nothing more to say but...See ya!

 

[tiggerwannabe]

Don't let the front door hit cha, where the good lord split cha!

MEga13: For those of us that actually read your report, I applaude you. You had the guts to lay it all out there for us!

Your BF has his issues, he was a little too blunt in his reasoning, maybe as the OP said-to distract you from his issues rather than deal with them.

My recommendation for you my fellow DISer is to give yourself enough space away from him to find yourself. Take the next Disney vacation with someone who judges less and enjoys you more.

and Have a Disney Day!!!

 

[PrincessMelissa]

Hi!
What a great trip report!
I was laughing and crying right along with you. You have quite an exceptional sense of humor and I'm glad you went into so much detail!
As everyone else has stated, you ARE pretty and I feel so bad your bf said those things to you. My heart sank when I read how it upset you.

I am at Disney often and I hope to see you one day.
I would read anything you have to write- you're hilarious!
Take Care!

 

[LindaBabe]

I thought that was a pretty, open honest trip report and what happened, happend. I admire you for standing up to that girl - I would like to think I would have done the same thing - what's right is right and you dealt with it with humor.

Haven't read all the comments, honey, but take it from me. I'm 57 years old - i've seen a LOT of men, good, bad and indifferent. My advice is "dump the boyfriend - he's a loser". Without some serious counseling, he'll never give up the porn. If you can't trust him on that, can you trust him on anything? Not imho! Then, to deflect your justifiable rage at discovering him in his lie, he turns it around on you. BULLS**T. A few extra pounds look a heckofa lot better than an ugly mind. A hard body is not what builds a marraige - it's kindness, compassion, seeing your spouse for the best they can be, helping them to share their burdens and their joys and having them share yours. You don't need to look like a super model for that! And you don't need someone who doesn't value you for who you are and what you are! And you are pretty talented and pretty witty - and pretty pretty, too. Don't you forget it!

 

[Eeyore4me]

I LOVED your report! It's the in detail reports that keep me going in between Disney Trips! The only thing is, your pics aren't there for me to view. I LOVE putting a face with the trip!

Take care,
Lauren

 

[mega13]

...if anyone new to this trip report cannot see my Yahoo pictures. A "certain person" who shall remain nameless STRONGLY suggested I remove them. So they went bye-bye.

(BTW, has this banana guy always been there? He's pretty cute!)

(And this guy is great, too! Too bad I don't have much to laugh about right now)

I'm also sorry to those posters to whom I promised to write - it's been a roller coaster of a week, and I'm feeling pretty depressed. I haven't done much but sleep. I haven't exercised, but I haven't eaten too badly at all.

But all in due time... I have a plan!

I love you all - thanks for the thousandth time for opening my eyes so much wider. Your support is priceless. I will keep you updated.

 

[daisylove]

Why and how did he "strongly suggest" to you to remove the pics. Is it because he did not want his picture on there. You go on doing what You want and need to do. And that bananna guy is definitely new.How cute. and a fewothers too.

 

[CindysGusGus]

Ok, I wasnt going to comment but I felt the need to. Kelly, Nelly, or whatever your name is. Im sure you are still reading this as you seem to be stuck to Ems post like a train wreck you cant stop watching. When you got to the point of reading her post and it became too personal for you, you could have exited right out. Sending a somewhat nasty PM was just uncalled for and trollish. If you were the picture of perfection you make yourself out to be youd be airbrushed in a magazine because you seem pretty 2 dimensional to me. Prince Charming you are, go on to the next pixie dust post and leave your nasty comments to yourself. No one enjoys them.

Em..to you I never saw the pictures but you have a wonderful way of writing and you seem to know what you want from life. Hugs to you and I hope that things will becoming clearer to you and happier for you in the future.

 

[Alysa]

Don't you just love the "ignore this poster" feature!