CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! i'm so happy for you! i hope your day turns out perfect!
just remember that if anything goes wrong, it's not the end of the world. i look back on the little things that went wrong on my wedding day and it just makes it all the more special to me.
and the wedding dreams/nightmares are normal! the worst one i had was that i put my mom in charge of the food and she forgot to buy anything for the reception. so i gave her some money right before the wedding started and she went down to the nearest gas station market and bought a bunch of cheese puffs. i don't know if you guys have cheese puffs over there, but they're like air-filled potato chips with a powdered cheese all over them. when you eat them, you get this greasy, powdery bright orange stuff all over your fingers. so anyway, all the guests at my wedding had bright orange fingers and were hugging me and getting it all over my beautiful white dress.

it was awful! glad it was only a dream.