Ugh I hate "parent projects". Growing up, I remember pretty much handling all my homework myself and I always assume that teachers assign work based on what the children could handle themselves without adult involvement (as there are always kids whose parents DON'T get involved..and how utterly unfair it is for them).
Sad to say...as far as I can tell, most things so far from Grade 1 to Grade 4 have been "parent projects". My older dd is a fabulous student...and it hasnt been until Grade 4 that she's been able to complete her homework without considerable parental assistance. My younger ds has speech and language difficulties...and believe me when I say homework at grade 3 takes at least 1-2 hours a day.
I remember Grade 2 homework where my dd would get a question OBVIOUSLY requiring a 3 paragraph answer. I would look at it and completely shake my head as 3 paragraphs is practically a major project for a Grade 2 kid...not a "short answer".
I always worked from the premise that teachers provide you just enough space for the length of answer they want from you. my dd's teachers tended to provide teeny weeny spaces and expect long, detailed answers.
The part I hate is when the teachers don't provide enough instructions. This affects my ds particularly as he has comprehension issues so doesn;t always take in what the teacher says in class. We had a meltdown last weekend and I couldn't figure out how on earth he should be doing his work. His teacher told him to do a procedural quick write. We have been doing a 1-2 paragraph story every week and then suddenly his paragraphs started coming back marked "wrong" as the format had changed (with no written instructions!!). well, my son had no clue what his teacher wanted...and with no instructions I had no clue either. It took me a while to convince him to write something..anything...to at least show he gave it his best attempt. we were both so frustrated.
Sad to say...as far as I can tell, most things so far from Grade 1 to Grade 4 have been "parent projects". My older dd is a fabulous student...and it hasnt been until Grade 4 that she's been able to complete her homework without considerable parental assistance. My younger ds has speech and language difficulties...and believe me when I say homework at grade 3 takes at least 1-2 hours a day.
I remember Grade 2 homework where my dd would get a question OBVIOUSLY requiring a 3 paragraph answer. I would look at it and completely shake my head as 3 paragraphs is practically a major project for a Grade 2 kid...not a "short answer".
I always worked from the premise that teachers provide you just enough space for the length of answer they want from you. my dd's teachers tended to provide teeny weeny spaces and expect long, detailed answers.
The part I hate is when the teachers don't provide enough instructions. This affects my ds particularly as he has comprehension issues so doesn;t always take in what the teacher says in class. We had a meltdown last weekend and I couldn't figure out how on earth he should be doing his work. His teacher told him to do a procedural quick write. We have been doing a 1-2 paragraph story every week and then suddenly his paragraphs started coming back marked "wrong" as the format had changed (with no written instructions!!). well, my son had no clue what his teacher wanted...and with no instructions I had no clue either. It took me a while to convince him to write something..anything...to at least show he gave it his best attempt. we were both so frustrated.
. I still believe it is unrealistic to expect a second grader to go home every night, after her "work day", and work some more. How many of us like to do that?
