okay, well yeah totally understandable that you don't want to hurt your friend.
but like you said, you've only known her for 3 months? So you need to decide if she's worth giving up this guy that you really like nd really likes you for.
(if you do need to give her up, maybe talk to her and she'll be really understanding? if she throws a hissy fit and is willing to dump YOU just because he likes YOU, then personally don't think she's worth it)
I totally understand the "bros before hoes" (or the girls one) mentality, but now, with my boyfriend HE ALWAYS comes first.
It's gonna be a tough decision to make. Because once you have a boyfriend, he will always come first.
I don't have very many close girl-friends so i don't really know what it's like to lose a girlfriend of a guy.
But to me, a girl who is willing to yell & get in a fight with you over a guy liking you better than her is not worth it anyway. Look @ it from the perspective of he DID like her, she probably wouldn't care about hurting YOU (because girls are like that)
TO me, Love always comes first. I've developped a friendship with my boyfriend too, and he's not my best friend AND my boyfriend, and honestly, I do have a few other really close friends, but I'd be okay with it just being m e & my boyfriend.
It really depends on your relationship with both of them though.
Do you think Rachel would go balistic if you told her that Jackson liked you?