Okay...I've Called the Late Night DISers, Now I'm Calling the Single DISers (Part 2)

[floridaminnie]

Some things are worth waiting for!

That is the truth Leggs...in more ways than one. Sounds like you had a good time, one that was well deserved!

My life has been very interesting lately. Taking my mom out to dinner tonight b/c she's having surgery tomorrow. Need to get stuff with the attorney straightened out b/c this has been going on way way too long and just want to get it all straighten out. The one really good thing is my bf...he truly is wonderful and listens. So far so good. It's amazing it's only been a month, it seems like soo much longer than that.

 

[TigerBear]

Originally posted by legs22
One of them was from Houston. I wanted to say "I know someone in Houston! Do you know...um....um.....TigerBear? I couldn't think of your real name or maybe I never knew your real name.

LOL! My name is Deborah! Barry is sending me a DVD of his Texas trip and he asked me if he should address it to Ms. Bear! It sounds like your trip was fun!! Vegas is definitely a fun place.

PW, I bet your guy thinks of it is a date. I say let him come your way....If he is worth it he will come.

FM, good thoughts coming your way for your mom's surgery! I'm so glad you are so happy!

My guy and I celebrated our first anniversary on Friday night. He wanted to go back to the restaurant we met at (Macaroni Grill) but to our suprise it has closed! I asked him what that means for our relationship. Last night we went to see Troy. It was quite an intense movie.

 

[Pin Wizard]

Originally posted by legs22
I wanted to say "I know someone in Houston! Do you know...um....um.....TigerBear?

LOLOLOLOL! That is hilarious! Sounds like you had a GREAT trip, Legs! So when's the return trip?

 

[Pin Wizard]

Originally posted by TigerBear
PW, I bet your guy thinks of it is a date. I say let him come your way....If he is worth it he will come.

My guy and I celebrated our first anniversary on Friday night. He wanted to go back to the restaurant we met at (Macaroni Grill) but to our suprise it has closed! I asked him what that means for our relationship. Last night we went to see Troy. It was quite an intense movie.

Ah, well...we'll see what Mr. looking for a casual relationship is like.

CONGRATULATIONS!!! One year! Don't worry about the restaurant closing. Ha! Did he give you an answer?

 

[mickeysdsnyprncs]

I feel like I can't get anything done. Ugh! Busy Busy Busy!


Hope to talk more soon.


Congrats TB!!

 

[floridaminnie]

mom made it out of surgery ok...in a lot of pain though. Just talked to her on the phone and she's grogy from meds. Hopefully she'll feel better her soon. Stopping by to see her this afternoon. Having one of those days where I feel like I'm walking in a dream and nothing is for real and nothing is going right. For example, I have NEVER ran out of bread and we did this morning. AGH! It's just one thing after another, just one of those days.

 

[legs22]

FLM- Glad your Mom came through the surgery ok and hope she recuperates quick. Hope you come out of the fog soon.
I too am out of bread!

 

[Pin Wizard]

I'm glad your mom is out and doing well, Suzanne. Hope she's back home soon and recovers quickly. Oh! The fog! A protection for us really. Happens when things are way too stressful. Widows are familiar with "the fog" as we call it. Sometimes for a year or two! Hope it lifts for you soon, Suzanne.

 

[legs22]

I went to the 7-11 after work to get dd a Slurpee and guess what? I'm still out of bread!

This co-worker thing has been driving me nuts today

 

[TigerBear]

PW, he of course said it means nothing. I have a feeling in the next few months we will be deciding whether we have a future together. I truly believe the right thing will happen, but I know my heart will be torn in pieces if things don't work out for us.

So, this guy actually told you he was looking for a casual relationship? I guess we all know what that means.

Suzanne, I hope your mom's pain ends soon. Glad the surgery went well.

Sorry about your work situation Legs. It sounds frustrating!

MDP, you always sound so busy!! When are you leaving for Disney?

 

[Pin Wizard]

TigerBear...Oh! The turning point...yikes! I remember that point with my husband, and it wasn't pretty.

This guy? We met online and his profile says he's looking for a casual relationship. If that's the case, it will be REAL casual. Not the casual he's probably looking for! LOL!

 

[mickeysdsnyprncs]

TB: I am always busy. The only way I get a day off is if I use a vacation day. But I tend to use those if I need to do something like, I had a wedding to go to so I took Saturday and Sunday off (paid vaca) to go to the wedding. I actually think i am leaving 3 months from today. Ahh! It's coming sooner than I thought. I check in @ Vista Way on the 25th of August.

Yesterday I asked Chris if I was worth waiting for, it had double meeting we were talking about something else, but I like to throw things like that in there every once and awhile. He responded with a "definately you are more than worth it." And even though we talk everyday about things, he really openned up to me yesterday.

FL : and for you mom.

PW: The whole casual relationship thing... yeah. The idea you have is a good one, it just depends on what idea he has. Although the relationship that i am in was suppossed to be casual I wasn't suppossed to get attached, and look where i am. But i wouldn't trade it. I hope it is a good thing for you.

Legs: for the work issue. Staying in a job you thought you were going to be able to leave is never any fun. And co-workers Ugh! Some of mine I could just strangle!! Glad you had a good time in Vegas! I've never been there, I drove through saw the strip but I was not 21 yet so I didn't want to go to see all the things that I can't do. I will get there someday!

 

[TigerBear]

Originally posted by Pin Wizard
TigerBear...Oh! The turning point...yikes! I remember that point with my husband, and it wasn't pretty.

This guy? We met online and his profile says he's looking for a casual relationship. If that's the case, it will be REAL casual. Not the casual he's probably looking for! LOL!

How did you end up married to the guy if the turning point wasn't pretty?

At least Mr. Casual is honest.

 

[Pin Wizard]

Originally posted by TigerBear
How did you end up married to the guy if the turning point wasn't pretty?

At least Mr. Casual is honest.

I guess we ended up married because he had some common sense. I gave him the ultimatum...we get married or he could take a hike. Guess he decided he didn't want to take a hike. In my book, there was no proposal. Sure, we went out for dinner one night and he asked the question. But it was basically staged. I knew we were going to dinner, and I knew he was going to ask and put the ring on my finger. I want a proposal that comes out of the blue and straight from the heart. Staged doesn't count for me.

Yes, I guess Mr. Casual is honest. No sparks at lunch today. We'll see if I hear anything else from him. He says he'll probably e-mail tonight. Wanted to know if DS and I want to go to the beach on Saturday...if we aren't doing anything...his words. Hey, he may know some guys. Might be okay for an afternoon here and there. But I really don't see potential for anything "more" between us. Of course, Suzanne may disagree with that!

 

[TigerBear]

Oh. Now I understand. I've known other women who have given their man an ulitimatum. I would guess that it is not very romantic. I'm actually not sure how I feel about being totally surprised by a proposal. It seems terribly romantic, but I don't know how realistic it is since there are so many issues which need to be decided before marriage.

So Mr. Casual might be a friend? Friends are good things to have!

 

[Pin Wizard]

Yes, a new friend is good. DS and I will be going to the beach with him on Saturday.

 

[mickeysdsnyprncs]

Friends are a good thing especially since you don't know very many people there yet. Sounds like you and DS will have fun at the beach. I want to go to the beach but it hasn't been consistantly warm enough yet here to go and actually be able to get in the water. I guess that is why I resort to the hot tub at mom or dads. That is always nice.

I want to be surprised when I get asked too, I am a hopeful romantic. To be honest my ideal would be in front of the castle at Disney, either one WDW or DL. But if I can't have that I want it to be big. Of course anyway I get it is cool too. One thing that I would like though is for him to ask my dad's permission. My dad asked for my step mom's dad's permission (woah was that confusing or what LOL) The whole staged thing doesn't sound like I would like it. I know people who have been through that too it's like couldn't you have spiced it up even a little. But PW, common sense is a good thing, and it can be hard to find sometimes.

 

[Pin Wizard]

Originally posted by mickeysdsnyprncs
But PW, common sense is a good thing, and it can be hard to find sometimes.

True. Someone recently told me that a good number of men have the smarts, but not all of them have common sense. I told them...well, my dad always had both. I grew up just expecting that men do! Ha! You have to wonder when they have the smarts, but they don't think to put sun screen on before going out fishing on a boat for a day.

 

[mickeysdsnyprncs]

LOL! Yeah. Good point.

 

[floridaminnie]

Good sense is a must! Otherwise it's like having another child and who needs that!?!?