I think there are a number of issues at play here and others not.
1.
DVC is a timeshare. You can't compare it to a hotel. Hotels have to convince people they want to come back or stay at another one of their locations on the next trip. Each stay is like an audition. Timeshares already have their guests signed up for decades. We've stayed at other timeshares and most (in our experience) don't measure up to the DVC level of maintenance.
2. Timeshares have owners that resist increases in maintenance fees and grumble about all dollars spent (generally speaking). Certainly, hotels have to put the added maintenance costs into the room rates, but people paying cash generally prefer to spend the bucks for a spotless well maintained room or they don't care and stay in a budget hotel.
3. DVC probably has a greatly disproportionate number of children staying in their timeshare properties compared to most other TS properties. I think that equals disproportionate wear and tear.
4. DVC/Disney is probably much more inclined to NOT impose fees or police and convict guests as abusers. Just the left over nature of the old Disney way. Disney has much more at stake in alienating any guest. It is a tight rope they walk.
All things considered, I don't think it is the moving around of furniture, or putting one's feet on the coffee table, or hanging decorations that really make the wear and tear. It contributes, but not nearly to the degree of having the vast majority of guests stays that include children. Families with children, even when diligent about cleaning, still are much more active and simply wear things out faster. Everything gets used more... toilets, faucets, dishwasher, washer and dryer, more spills, more dirt on the carpet, stains, bumps and dings in the walls, doors get slammed more, shades get pulled too hard, and the list could go on.
So DVC is really in a tough spot when they have owners who want to keep the MF's down, and on the other hand, probably the highest rate of guest stays that include children of all ages.
Yes, there are some small things that one can do to NOT contribute, but It all comes down do the dynamics of a DISNEY timeshare.
JMHO
