Oh, what a night!

JerseyJanice

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Venting here some. I'm still somewhat in shock that this is happening.

My nephew, who is starting his junior year of college shortly, interned at my company this summer. Yesterday was his last day of work; he's going to Florida with his younger brother today for a week's vacation before he goes back to school.

I asked him to stop by and see me before he left. He came to my cubicle and started crying, so I took him into an empty office to find out what was upsetting him.

His father, my oldest brother, is in ICU in Las Vegas. He, his wife and daughter flew out there for a vacation on Tuesday. On the plane ride, he got very pale and started acting strange. His wife (my SIL) is a nurse, and she thought he might be having a stroke.

They made to the airport, and he passed out there. An ambulance took him to the hospital, and it turned out that he had some major internal bleeding.

He had something I'll try to spell called esophageal varicosa, meaning a blood vessel toward the bottom of his esophagus burst. As of last night, they'd gotten the bleeding down to a slower rate, and he'd had three blood transfusions.

They have suspected that he may have developed cirrhosis; he knew that before going on the trip. This problem confirms it; it was caused by the cirrhosis. He has a bone disease and has been on various drug therapy, including steriods, for nearly 20 years. This in turn caused the cirrhosis.

Today, they're doing a procedure called banding where they'll go down his throat to put in some rubber band-like things to heal the burst blood vessel. If it doesn't work, they'll need to cauterize it. Once they're sure that the blood vessel is O.K., they'll discharge him from the hospital so he can come home and figure out how to deal with the cirrhosis.

He's had anemia for a few months which means he's been bleeding slowly for that long. The change in air pressure on the airplane is probably what caused the vessel to burst. He might not be able to fly home; my sister-in-law will be discussing that with the doctors today. :(
 
I'm so sorry, Janice. Your brother and his family are in my prayers, as are you.
 
Janice I am so sorry to hear this
I wish your brother success with the procedure and hope he is well and home with your family soon
 
Oh my....I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers!!!!
 

Oh no! I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.:(
 
Oh JJ, I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like he had a lot on his plate to begin with and just wanted a getaway. Hope and pray that the procedure goes well and he recuperates quickly. Please keep us updated and hugs to you!!
CC
 
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Oh dear.....:( I hope they get the bleeds clotted properly. They can be so scary. I'll say a prayer.
 
I'm so sorry. You and your brother and your family are in my prayers.

Sending you loads of hugs to help you through this!
 
I'm glad you were there for your nephew Janice, but I am sorry this is happening to your brother.

I'll keep your family in my thoughts and pray for an uneventful surgery and quick recovery so he can return home to be with the rest of his family!
 
The boys (his sons) did leave for Florida this morning. There's no point in their postponing the trip since they can't do much for him at home. Even Vegas, they wouldn't be allowed to see him much; my SIL and niece haven't been allowed to spend much time with him.

His bone and spinal problems are so severe that he was on a morphine drip for the longest time. It seems to me like now he's in a real Catch 22 situation. If he has the cirrhosis, how can he keep taking drugs to treat the bone disease? And if they can't treat the bone disease...

I just hope his doctors find the wisdom to figure it out.
 
Janice, I am so sorry to hear this. I hope that the burst blood vessel heals with the procedure. I also wish him the best in dealing with his cirrhosis. You and your family are in my thoughts {{hugs}}
 
I've said a prayer for your brother and family....And just yesterday you were praying for me!!!

Just goes to show - you just never know when your kindness will be returned. Thank you for your support for me and I hope you and your family will make it through this crisis with great success.

Kathi
 
Janice, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. As a fellow NJ-er, I wanted to offer you a shoulder to cry on or an ear to vent to. PM me if you'd like my phone #...
 
What a scary thing to have happen.. And so far away from home no less!!

I'll be praying for all of you.. Hopefully this procedure will help so he can at least get back home..
 
He's at Desert Springs hospital (in Las Vegas I assume).

His wife (SIL) is a nursing supervisor here in Morris Plains. She seems to think it's a good hospital and that he's in good hands. If anyone were in a position to make that assessment, it's her.
 
Janice - how scary! I hope all goes well, and that they arrive home safely and soon.
 

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