Wow, if I can get GF rooms at a good discount, SRU, can *I* come to your wedding? LOL.
Look, I just want to say that these things have a way of working out, and you all shouldn't unduly stress out over trying to accomodate your guests. Wedding guests sometimes have this attitude where they expect everything to be done for them, and then wrap it all up in a pretty bow. (Not saying this is you all's case, but just an observation.) What people sometimes forget is that they bear some responsibility in the whole wedding thing--even if they are the guests.
I would like to send out a list of wedding etiquette tips for quests. Something like:
1) A lot of thought, time, effort, planning and money is going into this wedding. Do you think you could take 5 minutes to respond in a timely fashion to the emails, RSVPs with the SASE, or phone calls so that we may plan intelligently?
2) We have asked you to come to this wedding to share our joy with us. Toward that end, would you refrain from being negative, making catty remarks or otherwise doing things which rob this very, very special, once-in-a-lifetime day of its' joy? Just---sit on it, in other words. Or stay away (no one is forcing you to attend) and allow us to save the couple hundred bucks
pleasure-of-your-company tax we will have to pay in order to hear you tell me marriage is for suckers, or I am not ready, or I should be ashamed of myself for having a nice wedding when I have been married before. I guess I should sneak off and get married at midnight in the courthouse basement, huh? Pfft.
3) When you do not respond to the emails, RSVPs or phone calls, do NOT gripe about the arrangements that had to be made for *you* at the last minute.
4) Learn the art of being a good guest. Smile. Mingle. Chat politely. Don't drink too much--even if the booze is free. Don't take advantage of hospitality. If a mistakes and faux pas occurse, ignore it, or make a charming little joke about it. Work at putting others at ease. Show a little appreciation. Participate in the program, whatever it is. And remember,
YOU do not need to approve of anything--it isn't your wedding. Just be happy for someone else--maybe for the first time in your life.

Maybe it could become a habit.
Well. There now, I feel a little bitter. Better! BETTER! I meant I feel a little
better!
Just a few thoughts after being in, planning, or being a guest in a lot of weddings over the years.
Ladies, don't stress. Be happy. And que sera, sera.
