I'm totally relating to the indicision Christine!!! my new PTR is collecting dust over there...cause I don't know what to say...I'm having serious 2nd thoughts too
I really hope that I end up HAVING to take along my 'mystery who' because then I won't have the option to stay home!! So i'm feeling for ya!
I would have thought that any one applying for that job of BF (sorta or not) would need to pass the Disney test

.... I shoulda did that w/ my DH... not Disney per se, but travelling in general. Much easier if they're on the same wavelength as you on that sorta thing....at least my DH doesn't mind if I go with friends/solo!!
I think that you may want to skip the photography meet...you already have 1 or 2 planned anyway. Do the drinking around the world one!! I think that would be a fun thing to do in a group...as opposed to doing it solo!! i'm excited about the TSM meet...wow!! that sounds like a great time!!
Paula