Official September 2012 planning thread! List on page 30!

ShhhQ said:
But more importantly, Mom is the one who arranged for me to go with her sister.... and while Mom was ill, I told her I would cancel and stay home with her if she needed me... She was ADAMANT in the fact that she WANTED me to go and have a good time... The thought of canceling on her behalf was out of the question. So I am honoring her wishes by continuing my trip... even though I know some people wouldn't understand.. Now just have to come up with traveling money...

I'm sorry for your loss, and I send my prayers as well. I know I'm new to this board, and you do not know me, but I lost my grandfather(who was more of a father to me) right before my first adult trip to Disney. My grandfather was the first person to take me back when I was five or six, then I didn't return again until April of last year when I was 25. My husband convinced me my pop would want me to go and have fun, and maybe even have some extra fun in honor of him. Which I did my best. It's hard, and I still have moments, but I push through. The worst yet for me has been hearing that they were closing the Snow White ride. This was the first ride I had been on, and the only ride my grandfather went on with me.
 
ShhhQ said:
With Mom's passing, a heavy financial burden has been placed upon my shoulders. Seriously was on the verge of canceling our trip, my aunt and myself.

However, talked it over with family (especially the Aunt going with me) and decided not to cancel after all. Since the trip was completely paid for already (with the exception of travel money) and any refund would not be for the full amount nor would it come in time to help with the most pressing issues anyway.

But more importantly, Mom is the one who arranged for me to go with her sister.... and while Mom was ill, I told her I would cancel and stay home with her if she needed me... She was ADAMANT in the fact that she WANTED me to go and have a good time... The thought of canceling on her behalf was out of the question. So I am honoring her wishes by continuing my trip... even though I know some people wouldn't understand.. Now just have to come up with traveling money...

As for my drawings... they were something I started last year for her to get involved and I eventually began posting them online. Started them up at 100 days this year and each day I brought the picture to Mom... whether she was in the hospital, rehab, or even the short 2 weeks that I had her at home. The last drawing I did was on the day she passed... and my heart hasn't been in it since then... I will draw again someday, but THESE have stopped

I am so sorry to hear that! I lost my mother 5 years ago this past Friday to a long battle with cancer. We use to visit WDW at least once each year, sometimes twice. My first time back after she passed was kind of bitter sweet and I almost broke down and cried. I could just picture us being there. Just remember, this is what your mother would want you to do and you must go on and live life, but remember, she will always be with you! You have a wonderful gift of artistic ability that I am sure your mother would want you to continue! I don't know how to get the icons on here using a cell phone but I'm sending hugs your way!

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With Mom's passing, a heavy financial burden has been placed upon my shoulders. Seriously was on the verge of canceling our trip, my aunt and myself.

However, talked it over with family (especially the Aunt going with me) and decided not to cancel after all. Since the trip was completely paid for already (with the exception of travel money) and any refund would not be for the full amount nor would it come in time to help with the most pressing issues anyway.

But more importantly, Mom is the one who arranged for me to go with her sister.... and while Mom was ill, I told her I would cancel and stay home with her if she needed me... She was ADAMANT in the fact that she WANTED me to go and have a good time... The thought of canceling on her behalf was out of the question. So I am honoring her wishes by continuing my trip... even though I know some people wouldn't understand.. Now just have to come up with traveling money...

As for my drawings... they were something I started last year for her to get involved and I eventually began posting them online. Started them up at 100 days this year and each day I brought the picture to Mom... whether she was in the hospital, rehab, or even the short 2 weeks that I had her at home. The last drawing I did was on the day she passed... and my heart hasn't been in it since then... I will draw again someday, but THESE have stopped

I'm glad you decided to go! Your Mom will be with you in your heart and watching over you! Group hug from all us Disers!!!!:grouphug::grouphug:
 
With Mom's passing, a heavy financial burden has been placed upon my shoulders. Seriously was on the verge of canceling our trip, my aunt and myself.

However, talked it over with family (especially the Aunt going with me) and decided not to cancel after all. Since the trip was completely paid for already (with the exception of travel money) and any refund would not be for the full amount nor would it come in time to help with the most pressing issues anyway.

But more importantly, Mom is the one who arranged for me to go with her sister.... and while Mom was ill, I told her I would cancel and stay home with her if she needed me... She was ADAMANT in the fact that she WANTED me to go and have a good time... The thought of canceling on her behalf was out of the question. So I am honoring her wishes by continuing my trip... even though I know some people wouldn't understand.. Now just have to come up with traveling money...

As for my drawings... they were something I started last year for her to get involved and I eventually began posting them online. Started them up at 100 days this year and each day I brought the picture to Mom... whether she was in the hospital, rehab, or even the short 2 weeks that I had her at home. The last drawing I did was on the day she passed... and my heart hasn't been in it since then... I will draw again someday, but THESE have stopped

So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I know if must be hard to even think about going on vacation, but I'm sure she will be watching over you and your aunt. :grouphug:
 

ShhhQ, so very sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I can NOT imagine life without my mom even though we live 4 hrs apart. Prayers for you, dear. :sad1:

I think keeping your trip plans will be a great way to attach some happier memories to this difficult time. Maybe in WDW, you'll be able to relax a bit and not be so consumed by the sadness and pressures of the moment.
 
Shhhq, I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through. I can only imagine the heartache all of this brings. Your drawings brought joy to all of us and I'm sure your mother loved them even more. I totally understand you not wanting to continue. Hang in there. :grouphug:
 
Shhhq, I don't know if this would help..

but when my time comes and I leave my DD's I would truly want them to continue to go to WDW if that is what they wish. They are very young now and I hope that I am making them long lasting memories now, and I hope these memories stay when them and comfort them when I am gone.
 
Shhhq, I don't know if this would help..

... and I hope these memories stay when them and comfort them when I am gone.

Shhhq
As time passes the memory of your mother and all you shared together will bring you comfort.

I am glad you decided to honor your mother's wishes to continue with your Disney trip. It will probably be a rough trip at times,but it may help you with the healing process. :grouphug:
 
Any tips on MNSSHP or Wishes? We've never been! Also, does anyone have any inside tips on how to maximize the most out of our deluxe dining credits?!

AHHH!!!! 45 days!!!! :dance3:

Wishes tip...look for the wire when staring at the castle on the right...Tink flies during wishes so find a nice stop under the wire to get a great picture of her flying over head. pixiedust:

MNSSHP go to the dance parties, there are usually two, one with Donald and Daisy and one with Lilo and Stitch...so fun, they get you doing lots of fun dances (think YMCA) pirate:
 
Got my Mickey Mail today !! :cool1:

Only got one tag each for ME, can I call to get more?? We are flying Southwest and we are allowed 2 each though we usually just bring 1 each and 1 to spare for souvenirs.
 
OatsZoo said:
Got my Mickey Mail today !! :cool1:

Only got one tag each for ME, can I call to get more?? We are flying Southwest and we are allowed 2 each though we usually just bring 1 each and 1 to spare for souvenirs.

Sure can!

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I'm envious of all of your Mickey Mail. We're staying offsite, taking the train and using YES tix so we don't get anything from WDW ahead of time. I'm thinking of ordering maps just so we get something!
 
I'm envious of all of your Mickey Mail. We're staying offsite, taking the train and using YES tix so we don't get anything from WDW ahead of time. I'm thinking of ordering maps just so we get something!

I'd do it, then! I just ordered some this summer (like I do every year...:lmao:)
and it took right at 3 weeks to get them. Looks like you have plenty of time, and the kids love them! We spread them out on the living room floor and picked our our favorite rides.
 
Two more weeks and I can check in online!!!

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Wow it seems like alot of us are getting our Mickey mail. I got our revised Mickey mail. I'm not sure if I'm getting revised ME or not. I'm going to call today and find out. I really need to get packing.
 















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