We found out today that my Daddy probably has kidney cancer. He only has one kidney due to complications from kidney stones about 40 years ago. They are running more tests Friday, and he goes back to the doctor 2 weeks from today. THe doctor is suggesting removing his kidney, and he would be on dialysis 3 times a week. He's also diabetic, has a rare blood antibody, and a hemphilian, so any surgery is scary. I am so worried.
Of course, our trip also looms in my mind. My girls would be devastated if we don't go, with all the build up happening around here. We have 39 days, and I just don't know. The doctor may want to schedule the surgery pretty quickly, so I would feel okay about going if he's been recovering for a few weeks, but I can't see me being 12 hours away during the surgery with all his problems...