We have been talking about doing a budget. I started slowly 2 weeks ago. Pulling out the grocery money for the month. $100/week. I take $120 with me in case I accidently go over. I shopped yesterday and spent $96. YAY. I saved $16 using the bonus card and I am gona chcek out that grocery game site! I am looking forward to snowballing my debt.
I can say something that really changed was that we didn't have a church we called home. Just couldn't find one we liked. Soo.. we started sending a monthly tithe to dh's brothers church. He had just started a church in NC. Immediatley, things started happening for us. We were able to get a house, had extra $$ popping up all over the place. It was amazing. I think once we started giving even though we didn't really have it, we were and still are blessed with not having to wonder how we are going to pay our light bill, lol.
We have debt, not oo bad, but enough where we are not comfortable. Dh got a new and better job and for the first time is putting in 401K. 9%, that feels really good!