Sorry i should explain myself....here's how and what happened...

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Oh dear my wallet has just been taken into ICU and dispite the piggy bank controller doing all he can to save my bank balance from flat lining it just aint looking good.
At 16.15 this afternoon are most loved and trusted friend (well was) made an Announcement that shock my world to it's very core,her beautiful DD is to marry her boyfriend of 8 years next year (why next bloody year ),super,smashing you may say but hold on a minute as you aint heard WHERE or WHEN yet....The wedding will take place in the Dominican Republic on or around the september 30th.If we travel to the wedding (a ten hour flight ) we'll return home on the 3th of october just 10 DAYS before we are due to set off for the states and in doing so we'll also miss Mr and Mrs peorge's 13 birthdays....Do we go,do we cry off?
Ive talked to the kids about us going and all ryan said was "does it mean we'll get an even bigger party when you get home?" and "does jess get to play dad for the week?" not a mention as to weather he'll miss us or not....
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No,fun aside it aint one of them wedding were you HAVE to go as we love the girl to bits and they would'nt be at all offered,it's just the timing thing and what with the kids birthdays chucked in as well the $5000 cost is just a side issue,i think
As for the wife "it's only money love and just think about all that alone time"..... am i that transparent?......
We slept on the wedding thing,we talked through all the pro's and con's this morning for hours and afterwards we decided on missing the trip....on coming back from town and asking the wife did you ring and tell them?..."Yes love i did i told them everything you said as to why we could'nt make the trip,THEN I WENT AHEAD AND BOOKED IT ANYWAYS"....HELLO,I SAID NO!!..."I KNOW YOU DID,BUT I KNOW YOU REALLY MEANT TO SAY LET'S GO FOR IT"....Do i really love this crazy women?.....At leased she knows who's incharge in are house......
I dont really work as such and am home 24/7 (hence i get to play on here)so it's only the kids school holidays we have to worry about...oh and my weight...
