I hear you and in a perfect world we wouldn't be having this discussion. It seems that whether it's the past or the present the bus line system has never been truly fair either way at times with regards to wheelchair/
scooter. I might agree that in the past it leaned a little bit in favor of the handicap passenger at times with a wheelchair or scooter. Now, I think it has totally reversed itself and the handicap wheelchair passenger is really suffering much more now and way beyond what the regular person in the regular bus line ever did. It may have been a little unjust before when there was a special handicap line, but now it's swung too much in the other direction with mainstreaming. Now, it seems you give the bus driver way too much power to decide this situation. I really don't think this should be in their control. The bus driver can always claim they didn't see you; so sorry and you don't get your proper turn on the bus. I don't think there's a bus driver at Disney that likes to tie down a wheelchair or scooter; it goes against their grain. It's more work for them and it's harder work for them. This decison should not be up to the bus driver; that's just not a good business practice. It absolutely seems that this is what's happening currently. The bus driver can certainly appraise the situation if he wanted to before leaving anyone on the bus; he could politely ask if there are handicap passengers, too. I don't see this being that hard for them to do.
I'm almost thinking the best idea in my case is to have my mom, who's in a wheelchair, placed in this imaginary handicap area by the curb toward the bus's back area where the lift should be. Then hopefully, the bus driver should be able to spot her in a wheelchair easily that way. Then, I should separate myself from her and go to the regular bus line and mainstream myself. If I stay with her other Disney guests will think I'm jumping the line to get on first; because, I'm not in the mainstreamed line. Now, somehow, when the bus driver comes I need to scream, wave and anything else to get his attention about the wheelchair if I think there will be enough space on the bus for the both of us to board. I can't really drop out of line either because that will rub the regular guests the wrong way if I have to go back in line; I'm certainly not going to start over again. Now, if I'm 20th or so in the regular line this can be almost impossible to do, but somehow without getting out of the regular line I have to get the bus driver's attention; so, we can pre-board. My mom is not capable of communicating this on her own. In addition, I'm less that 5 foot, 2 inches tall and I'm suppose to get the driver's attention when almost everyone before me will be taller. If I can't get the bus driver's attention and he boards those in line before me, then I'm simply out of luck and now I wait for a second bus.
All of this gets a person very anxious. If there was a regular procedure for the bus driver to leave the bus doors closed until the driver could appraise the situation and see what's what then I wouldn't have any issue being mainstreamed in the bus line. The bus driver could ask as well if there are any wheelchair or scooter people that are in the regular line that need to board for that bus; let's say the first 40 people waiting in line. If the bus driver properly controlled the situation I could see this being handled fairly to all. The big problem is the bus driver. For whatever reason it seems they are allowed not to have to pay attention to a possible wheelchair or scooter rider for their bus. Somehow, it's on us to get the bus driver's attention which could be very difficult in the dark and if the crowd is more boisterous and bigger and so forth. No one else in the regular line has to be this anxious; except, those with a scooter or wheelchair. It just doesn't feel right by me.
I know it will be a hassle; I can just tell. I may be ok on some days, but I just feel there will be days were my mom and I will get the short end of the stick here no matter which way I do it. I don't want special treatment I just want fair treatment and this is not happening from the reports we get here on the disboards. This current way leads itself with too many loopholes which all seem to go against the handicap wheelchair or scooter person. I'm dissappointed right now on this count. I'll survive, but it does rub me the wrong way.
I know I won't be able to do anything about it. I'll just hope I'm one of the lucky ones that doesn't have a bad experience.