Now I've seen it all: "Lets Get Retarded!"

Here's what I sent to Showstoppers:

"Dear Sir or Madam,

We attended your competion in Ft. Worth, Texas this weekend. The competition appeared to be well run. I especially liked how you showed a clip of the first place winners and interviewed a team member from each winning team.

I do, however, need to express one grave concern. One group danced to the offensive re-mix of "Let's Get it Started" entitled "Let's Get Retarded." Each team member had something "wrong" with his or her costume (e.g. a girl in a pink tutu with big black knee pads.) It was obvious from the routine and costuming that the group was actually trying to depict "retarded" people or behavior. It was wildly inappropriate and terribly offensive.

Fortunatly, our girls didn't see the number. I imagine it would have been quite upsetting to the team member who has a mentally challenged sister. To add insult to injury, this team was the only group in their category, so they received a first place award and we all had to sit through the clip of their performance again.

The rules section of your web site says "If dance movements, music lyrics, or costuming are deemed to be too suggestive or otherwise inappropriate for our family audience, it will be scored lower by the judges." I have no way of knowing if this particular group was scored lower because of the offensive nature of its routine.

I would suggest that you "beef up" this section of your rules, to spell out examples of unacceptable routines, such as those that mock or denegrate any particular group of people. I know that "offensive" is a subjective term, but I think that in 2005 it is universally accepted in the United States that mocking mentally challenged people is offensive. I'm sure you can usually rely on the good judgment of the coaches to choose appropriate material. However, in this case, the teacher was way off base.

Thank you for your attention."
 
Even if the person who chose the music was not paying attention or for some reason missed the whole "retarded" issues (follow me on this one), the fact that they CHOREOGRAPHED it to reflect the offensive lyrics is ridiculous!! There's no way you can claim ignorance on that one. I can just see going home to my parents saying "mom, I need to get a copy of Let's Get Retarded so I can work on my dance." I'd be out of that studio so fast my head would spin! I hope something is done about that.
 
phisigprincess said:
I can just see going home to my parents saying "mom, I need to get a copy of Let's Get Retarded so I can work on my dance." I'd be out of that studio so fast my head would spin! I hope something is done about that.

I guess one thing I've learned from dance competions is that poor judgment on behalf of adults is rampant. The weekend before, the most sexually suggestive dance of the whole competion was a duet performed by a couple of seven year olds. :guilty: Since it was specially choreographed for those two particular girls, the parents certainly could have had it changed, but they must have thought that it was just fine for their 7 year olds to be writhing around like strippers. :sad2:
 

minkydog said:
good letter, missypie. I hope they are listening.

::yes:: ::yes:: ::yes::

Good for you for saying something to this organization. Let us know if you get a response.
 
Wow! I thought that in this day and time, we would be more sensitive to other people's differences and imperfections.

When I was in high school which was looooooong time ago, I had a run-in with a school bully and he slapped a homemade bumper sticker on my locker which said "Hire an handicapped person, they're fun to watch".

Got pissed off so I tracked down his locker and put a note on his locker: "Kick me, I'm a boorish jerk!" A few people kicked his ***. Hehehehe!

Funny thing is we're now good friends because that bully is my DH's best friend for 30 years and his wife is an absolute doll. :cool1:
 
IloveDMB said:
What's really dumb, besides the girls representation of the song, is that Black Eyed Peas didn't even mean retarded in that sense. I believe that are referring to getting drunk or smashed. I know I have friends that refer to themselves as being retarded drunk sometimes.

Yes, not that it's any better, but the song is using a slang that was naively interpreted in its MOST OFFENSIVE form by these children.

What adult saw and authorized this dance? The routine showed appallingly poor judgement and taste. I'll reserve my opinions on the song, though.
 
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I was at a Dupree dance convention/competition 2 weeks ago. I knew you would say the moms applauded wildly, if they had time before sticking another set of false eyelashes on their darlings. We only do one a year and the whole stage mom/beauty pageant atmosphere kind of turns my stomach. That said, I am also disgusted by 1) teacher 2) parents and 3) studio owner for letting this one get by. DD#1's company is doing "Let's get it started' for one of their numbers and you can be darn sure I just checked to make sure it's the "right" one! But I needn't have worried; I know our owner pretty well (10 years this year for DD#1, 7 for DD#2) and I knew she wouldn't allow that kind of thing.
Robin M.
 
ballroombelle said:
Yes, not that it's any better, but the song is using a slang that was naively interpreted in its MOST OFFENSIVE form by these children.

What adult saw and authorized this dance? The routine showed appallingly poor judgement and taste. I'll reserve my opinions on the song, though.

It wasn't just an adult "seeing" and "authorizing" the dance. Some adult chose the song, chose the costumes to "go" with the song, and choreographed it.

I googled the lyrics to the "bad" version. I don't pretend to understand all the slang, but it sounds as if they are perhaps talking about getting drunk or otherwise wasted, by comparing it wth being "stupid" "retarded" and like an epileptic. (It just gets worse, doesn't it?)

I won't reprint all of the lyrics, but here is one verse:

"Let's get ill, that's the deal.
At the gate, we'll bring the bud top drill. (Just)
Lose your mind this is the time,
Ya'll test this drill, Just and bang your spine. (Just)
Bob your head like epilepsy, up inside your club or in your bentley.
Get messy, loud and sick.
Ya'll mount past slow mo in another head trip. (So)
Come then now do not correct it, let's get ignant [ignorant] let's get hectic."
 
missypie said:
"Let's get ill, that's the deal.
At the gate, we'll bring the bud top drill. (Just)
Lose your mind this is the time,
Ya'll test this drill, Just and bang your spine. (Just)
Bob your head like epilepsy, up inside your club or in your bentley.
Get messy, loud and sick.
Ya'll mount past slow mo in another head trip. (So)
Come then now do not correct it, let's get ignant [ignorant] let's get hectic."

:cool1: :dancer:
 
missypie said:
I won't reprint all of the lyrics, but here is one verse:

"Let's get ill, that's the deal.
At the gate, we'll bring the bud top drill. (Just)
Lose your mind this is the time,
Ya'll test this drill, Just and bang your spine. (Just)
Bob your head like epilepsy, up inside your club or in your bentley.
Get messy, loud and sick.
Ya'll mount past slow mo in another head trip. (So)
Come then now do not correct it, let's get ignant [ignorant] let's get hectic."


Oh. My. Curlers. I thought we're in a civilized society... :sad2:
 

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