We went to the dessert party in August 2010. I liked it, kids liked it, hubby thought it was overpriced.
Here would be my 2 cents:
- your family best REALLY like sweets. There are tons to chose from.
- might want to feed kids close before time so they don't over do it.
- bring tums

- make sure & have photographer get a family shot. The castle is all lit up & chances are their night shots will turn out better than most guests' cameras. They also put a few freebie professional shots of the castle and electric parade on your photo pass.
- view for parade is limited.
- view for fireworks is outstanding.
- speaking of standing, don't plan on sitting if you want to see fireworks. Even though you will have paid good money for a seat, everyone crowds the rails & stands any ways. I had recent feet surgeries when we went, I had to remain seated, and I felt I could see pretty good (except for low ones).
- it is a GREAT, perfect view of Tinker Bell's fly-over (for all you Tink fans

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- seats/tables are reserved (but everyone still gets there early)
Hope this helps!