
W E L C O M E
Kristie
First off, FE stands for "Fish Extender."
DCL used the metal fish outside the room as a place to leave messages for cruisers. We extend the space to allow for larger or more items by hanging a receptacle from the fish. (Have you seen one yet? - FE that is, not a fish)
Those participating in the exchange give small gifts to the other participants. Some cruises have multiple groups to keep it manageable and other cruises have everyone participate in one large group - that is usually decided by group chatter. I've done groups of 12 cabins and loved being able to get my gifts to the boat and back home without going over luggage allowances.
Some people bring items representative of their hometown, some make crafts that have the cruise info on them, gifts from the dollar tree, CDs of tropical music, Disney-themed toys... Sometimes there is a price-cap to keep from getting out of hand.
Most people will tell you it's coming back to your cabin and finding a gift in your FE that makes it fun, not that you've gotten some "WOW" gift.
There are people who make FEs for sale (I think ETSY might have a dealer); others make their own in the standard fashion, and then there are some very creative people who come up with uses for shopping bags or purses to allow for a depository.
The organizer will collect first names, kids' ages, and cabin numbers and make a list so the participants will know where everyone is. On a three-night cruise, I imagine drop-off is anytime until mid-day on the 3rd day (to allow for packing/leaving bags outside room that night. Yes, most of us put our names/DISboard names on the gifts so you'll know who they are from.