Oh my gosh!! Too funny!! Let me tell you a story:
Years ago I was actually dating this guy. It wasn't serious, just a friend thing, he lived in Chicago, I lived here. Anyway, I had a girlfriend who was notorious for taking (sleeping with) her friends husbands/boyfriends....seems to be the thing to do down there with all the girls?? I don't get it? So one day (maybe 2/3 weeks after he and I started dating) she calls me and says "Hi...Umm...don't be mad, but I accidently kissed Al" and I said "No worries....you kiss every person who crosses your path". The next week she calls me and says "Hi...Umm...don't be mad but I accidently slept with him". Again, not a big deal because that's how she was. At this point he and I had talked and we were friends and had dropped the dating thing because I'm apparently too perky in the morning. A week or so later she called and said "Hi..umm...don't be mad but we're dating now". I was okay with it until I went down there to hang out with everybody and when I got there, he was a major butt-head to me and wouldn't talk to me. I'm guessing my "friend" had told him some things. Whatever, I got even and made him jealous that night, that's for sure! Okay, fast forward to about a month down the road, I get a phone call and she said "Hi...umm...don't be mad, but he asked me to marry him". They were married a few months later. They've been married for 4ish years or maybe 5. I do know in that time, she has cheated on him with at least 20-30 different people.
He is really a great guy and just wanted to be there for her and her kids and he worked his butt off so she wouldn't have to and did so much for them. All he did was give love but I think by this point, he's been beat down in an emotional sense. I wish the best for him though. He's just not for me after all that. Heck, that friend would probably come try to kill me for touching her man! Hahahha.