You sound like an amazing mom.
And I don't think you are weird at all. You never know what the future holds though...
I have been told more than a few times that I should have been born many many years ago.....
I love to cook, sew, and clean. It isn't that DF refuses to, it is just that we have different strengths and work together. I cook, he does the laundry, some of his friends give him a hard time about it, but it works for us. I am super clean, but very disorganized. He on the other hand hates clutter, but doesn't think twice about germs