joshua74133
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- Jan 15, 2011
- Messages
- 61
5 years ago I made the promise to my wife's 3 kids that I would take them to Disney World but when 3 kids turned to 4 we had to wait
. 2 years ago me and the wife saved every penny and planned the trip again, SURPRISE! Number 5 was on his way but because of a good year we were able to just push the trip out 2 months giving the baby a few months of growth.
Money was saved and Date was set . 4 months before the Vacation my wifes ex-husband (after he had already agreed) sends me a text saying fall break is not in the custody paperwork and he will not let the kids go to Disney World, He breaks the news to the children telling them that he will never allow us to take the kids to Disney . We ask the kids what they want us to spend the Disney money on and they ask us to take their dad to court and get full custody (there is A TON of back story here) in April we filed the suit and are awarded main custody giving dad no say (anymore) in the kids lives, So with what money is left I plan our next Disney trip WOOT! WOOT! RING, RING, RING MY mom asks me to sit down .
11 years ago my cousin had 3 kids in a span of two and a half years.
While being pregnant my cousin started using meth resulting in 1 child born with her insides on the outside the other little girl was born with no problems and the boy, well... No one really knows what is wrong with him.
Mom goes to jail and legal guardianship goes to grandma.
Mom gets out of jail and tells mom that she has changed and she wants her kids back, grandma gives it to her thinking she has changed.
Mom moves in with guy and the guy beats these kids while mom is strung out on pills.
Mom wakes up finds kids huddled in the corner crying and sees vacuum thrown through TV.
Mom calls police man goes into jail, guy gets out of jail says he changed and mom moves back in with the guy.
Kids tell mom they will not move back in so they stay with grandma.
Kids go visit and see threw a crack in the door the man slapping mom in the face yelling profanities then walk out and turns his verbal assault on the kids.
Kids go back to grandma and tell her the guy is beating mom and the guy has not changed.
3 days later little boy (11 years old) feels the steel of handcuffs for slashing tires.
Son tries to kill himself
The only people that visit son in hospital was me and my wife
Daughter gets cops called on her (she's 12) cops call mom and get no answer so grandma calls me.
We get mom to sign papers and send daughter to an all-girls school
Hospital releases son into our custody saying releasing kids into moms custody would be harmful to child.
Kids are diagnosed PTSD.
Last week mom refused to answer phone or text; mom has not been seen or heard from for over 2 weeks.
We call DHS and they come to our house, they give us legal papers and tomorrow we file so 5 now becomes 8 and Disney is once again canceled and will have to stay canceled because of the cost OH well at least 3 kids have a shot at a normal life.
Never in my life did I see me having a family of 10 but God has his plan so we will follow.
Money was saved and Date was set . 4 months before the Vacation my wifes ex-husband (after he had already agreed) sends me a text saying fall break is not in the custody paperwork and he will not let the kids go to Disney World, He breaks the news to the children telling them that he will never allow us to take the kids to Disney . We ask the kids what they want us to spend the Disney money on and they ask us to take their dad to court and get full custody (there is A TON of back story here) in April we filed the suit and are awarded main custody giving dad no say (anymore) in the kids lives, So with what money is left I plan our next Disney trip WOOT! WOOT! RING, RING, RING MY mom asks me to sit down .
11 years ago my cousin had 3 kids in a span of two and a half years.
While being pregnant my cousin started using meth resulting in 1 child born with her insides on the outside the other little girl was born with no problems and the boy, well... No one really knows what is wrong with him.
Mom goes to jail and legal guardianship goes to grandma.
Mom gets out of jail and tells mom that she has changed and she wants her kids back, grandma gives it to her thinking she has changed.
Mom moves in with guy and the guy beats these kids while mom is strung out on pills.
Mom wakes up finds kids huddled in the corner crying and sees vacuum thrown through TV.
Mom calls police man goes into jail, guy gets out of jail says he changed and mom moves back in with the guy.
Kids tell mom they will not move back in so they stay with grandma.
Kids go visit and see threw a crack in the door the man slapping mom in the face yelling profanities then walk out and turns his verbal assault on the kids.
Kids go back to grandma and tell her the guy is beating mom and the guy has not changed.
3 days later little boy (11 years old) feels the steel of handcuffs for slashing tires.
Son tries to kill himself
The only people that visit son in hospital was me and my wife
Daughter gets cops called on her (she's 12) cops call mom and get no answer so grandma calls me.
We get mom to sign papers and send daughter to an all-girls school
Hospital releases son into our custody saying releasing kids into moms custody would be harmful to child.
Kids are diagnosed PTSD.
Last week mom refused to answer phone or text; mom has not been seen or heard from for over 2 weeks.
We call DHS and they come to our house, they give us legal papers and tomorrow we file so 5 now becomes 8 and Disney is once again canceled and will have to stay canceled because of the cost OH well at least 3 kids have a shot at a normal life.
Never in my life did I see me having a family of 10 but God has his plan so we will follow.
