"Newest" Moms Hangout... take 2!

BabyTigger - I missed the post about your 5 year mark-congrats! Hope the shots went well today.

I still swaddle Scarlett at night, not because she needs to be as she will nap just fine without anything, but because she wakes up in the morning with frosty hands and toes if she isn't wrapped in a blanket. I tried the wearable blanket things, but because her hands are still exposed, she still had the frosty hand thing in the morning. And I keep the house pretty warm at night, at least the other 4 of us are fine-warm, so other than swaddling there isn't much else that I can do.

ArielRae - That is pretty much what 3 month olds do, eat, play a few minutes, sleep, repeat. Through in some pooping, drooling, and spitting up and call it a day.

The one thing I would change if I were you, I would drop the nighttime diaper changes. When your son wakes up at midnight, 3am, whatever, don't change his diaper. Unless of course he pooped and you have to, but if it is just pee, don't worry about it. I found diaper changing to be really disruptive overnight and while I did it with my 1st child for months, I learned with my 2nd that after the initial newborn phase, where they poop everytime you nurse them, that he was fine to stay in the diaper. That child started sleeping through the night way, way, way sooner than my first. Now, part of that is just their temperments (as he just loved his sleep), but I think not changing him every feeding helped him distinguish between night and day.

And I did the same with Scarlett and, like I said, she sleeps very well. And actually, in her case, she is very rarely wet overnight. I can only hope that helps when it comes time to potty train!


cmskok - I had a Bjorn with my 1st and LOVED it. She loved it, I loved it, and I had the Bjorn Active, with the lower back support, so I carried her in that without issue till she was 15-18 months. She was a skinny baby, about 21lbs at that age, but still, she was long but it was never a problem.

Then I had my son was wasn't such a huge fan of that position so I got a sling, which I liked a lot. It was a pouch sling and I liked that he could lay down and sleep in it, but then sit upright and not dangle on his crotch (though my daughter is now 6yo and suffered no ill-effects so I don't really buy into the hype about it being terrible for them). I also liked how I could use it as a hip carrier when he was older. Of course, now some slings are being recalled for newborn deaths, but if you use it properly that isn't a problem.

With my 3rd I have tried every carrier, including the Ergo. I do like that one, but it's a pain to strap on. I like how it has a little canopy to keep her shaded. But she won't stay in it too long cause it's basically just the one position that works.

The best thing, for her anyway as I didn't buy it till I had her, is the Moby Wrap. I love, love, love it! As a newborn she could sleep upright, cuddled up against my chest. She has reflux so this was the perfect position to keep her from choking/gagging too much, plus she loved being really snug in there. I can make it really tight so as a newborn she probably felt like she was back in the womb, or being swaddled. When she was awake I could use the cradle carry to let her see out a bit, but still be fairly upright. Now I can either use it in the same facing-mom, seated position like the Ergo, or facing-out, like a seat though, not dangling. All the weight is on her butt, with her legs criss-crossed, knees above hips. I hold her in that position a lot (without the wrap I mean) cause she likes to see out, so I like that the wrap can maintain the same position. You can also breastfeed in it, though I have only really done that in my house, but that's my own deal really, not an issue with the wrap.

I will add that it can be sort of a pain to get on the first couple of times, but once you get the hang of it, it is super easy and fast, and just so versatile. She's awake when I put her in so I generally put her facing out to start, then when she's sleepy I turn her around to face me or put her in a cradle position.

It can also be used as a back carrier, though I have never tried that. Same with the hip hold-you can do it, but I haven't tried it yet as Scarlett isn't old enough.

So anyway, that would be my carrier of choice after having tried nearly every one in existence!

I have an Ergo, a Beco (very similar to Ergo)and a Bjorn. The Beco and Ergo are WAY better than a Bjorn. They are much more comfortable for the wearer and the baby. The only soft sided carrier that is okay for front facing carries is the Pikkilo, I think, and only up to about 6 months. Forward faing is highly looked down upon by babywearing enthusiasts as it is not a natural position for the baby, plus they can only be comfortably worn that way for a pretty short time. :snooty: Personally, I would have done it in Disney when she was younger, but there is no way I could now.

Since you are used to the Bjorn, I would suggest looking at the Beco as it's similar for getting them in and out of, ther Ergo has a different learning curve.

Since they cost about the same price I highly recommend trying to get an Ergo or Beco. If you can I would totally find one to borrow or find a local store where you can try one out. Otherwise look for a site that has a great return policy.



I agree! :thumbsup2

Thanks so much!!! I am such a bjorn fan, and so is my DH! I keep hearing that the ergo is so much more comfy. I have to look at the Moby! So many choices!!!:confused3
 
Thanks so much!!! I am such a bjorn fan, and so is my DH! I keep hearing that the ergo is so much more comfy. I have to look at the Moby! So many choices!!!:confused3

If you like the Bjorn, but it wasn't too comfy in the past, try the Bjorn Active carrier. Much, much easier on the back. I never had any strain wearing that and we live in Washington, DC, so we walk all the time. I would literally carry my oldest in it all day long without a complaint from me-super comfortable.
 
We have a bijorn and only have used it a couple times (its actually mostly for my brother who is in a wheel chair, it helps him be able to hold Isabel longer), my moby is still in the package - because WE LOVE our baby K'tan: http://www.babyktan.com/ It is awesome and can be sued in so many different positions and it was easy for me to learn. I like that it doesn't have a ring too :)
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I think DS is doomed to have a flat back of his head. No matter what I do DS sleeps with his head flat back and does not want to sleep with his head to one side or the other. I put him to bed and he likes to rock his head back and forth so positioning his head does no good as he does not keep it there. I try to keep him off his back as much as I can during the day and when he is on his back I put whatever has his attention to one side so he has to have his head turned. He has strong neck muscles and has no trouble using them to hold his head up and throw himself around. Guess he wants to look more like his dad as he has a bit of a flat back head too. :goodvibes

I read that you shouldn't worry to much about it as it will fill out once he starts to crawl around. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
 

I think DS is doomed to have a flat back of his head. No matter what I do DS sleeps with his head flat back and does not want to sleep with his head to one side or the other. I put him to bed and he likes to rock his head back and forth so positioning his head does no good as he does not keep it there. I try to keep him off his back as much as I can during the day and when he is on his back I put whatever has his attention to one side so he has to have his head turned. He has strong neck muscles and has no trouble using them to hold his head up and throw himself around. Guess he wants to look more like his dad as he has a bit of a flat back head too. :goodvibes

I read that you shouldn't worry to much about it as it will fill out once he starts to crawl around. Anyone have any thoughts on this?

Unless it is pretty severe or there is a complicating factor, like torticolis, it most likely will straighten itself once once the baby become more active & mobile. Both of my twins had mild/moderate plagiocephally by their 4 month visit.

We figured we'd try re-positioning & just watch it for a while. After a month it was pretty clear that Katie's would self-resolve. She was very active & once she mastered rolling she was a bound & determined belly sleeper. On the other hand after a month Dylan seemed to be getting worse. He was less mobile than his sister & had torticolis. So we made the call to get him a DOC band. We got it just before Christmas & we just finished up. :) We went here: http://www.cranialtech.com/ Honestly to be truly "done" & have his head molded as well as possible we probably could have gone another month, but 5 months was as much as he & I could stand.:goodvibes
 
We have a bijorn and only have used it a couple times (its actually mostly for my brother who is in a wheel chair, it helps him be able to hold Isabel longer), my moby is still in the package - because WE LOVE our baby K'tan: http://www.babyktan.com/ It is awesome and can be sued in so many different positions and it was easy for me to learn. I like that it doesn't have a ring too :)

It looks a lot like the Moby Wrap, except that you don't have to wrap it, which I would LOVE. I love the Moby, but the wrapping can be a bit annoying cause it means I can't just throw it on and throw the baby in like I can with a sling.

The only thing I noticed is that in the front facing positions, the baby is dangling from the crotch. Now, like I said, my daughter literally lived in her Bjorn for months of her life and we steadily used it till she was about 15 months with no ill effects. So I personally don't buy into the hype over damage to the hips and stuff from that position, but if you are avoiding a Bjorn for that purpose, this probably wouldn't be much better.
 
A few have recommended that I use Aquaphor for baby chin acne. Is it the 2 in 1 Aquaphor Baby Gentle Wash & Shampoo or the Aquaphor Healing Ointment. Thanks
 
A few have recommended that I use Aquaphor for baby chin acne. Is it the 2 in 1 Aquaphor Baby Gentle Wash & Shampoo or the Aquaphor Healing Ointment. Thanks

I have used both but the ointment is what I used when Lilliana had acne.
 
It looks a lot like the Moby Wrap, except that you don't have to wrap it, which I would LOVE. I love the Moby, but the wrapping can be a bit annoying cause it means I can't just throw it on and throw the baby in like I can with a sling.

The only thing I noticed is that in the front facing positions, the baby is dangling from the crotch. Now, like I said, my daughter literally lived in her Bjorn for months of her life and we steadily used it till she was about 15 months with no ill effects. So I personally don't buy into the hype over damage to the hips and stuff from that position, but if you are avoiding a Bjorn for that purpose, this probably wouldn't be much better.

They did a new position, on their website - which I think they call the kangaroo which is forward facing with the legs inside the "pouch"
 
They did a new position, on their website - which I think they call the kangaroo which is forward facing with the legs inside the "pouch"

I guess that is to appease the hip problem crowd. Not to discredit them as there may very well be something to that, but I just haven't seen it personally.


Scarlett has yet another cold. Having 2 older siblings who touch your with their germy little hands is rough. I just hope she sleeps better tonight than the past couple of nights cause I can't handle getting up multiple times a night after getting used to sleeping again!
 
We leave for WDW in the morning, and I am sooooo sick! Ds12 came in with a virus Wed-fever and nauseaus. He was fine to play in his game by Thu night. Dh got it yesterday, and I woke up with it this morning. I vomited once-other than that I've just been really sick on my stomach and I can't hold my eyes open. So I still haven't finished packing!
 
We leave for WDW in the morning, and I am sooooo sick! Ds12 came in with a virus Wed-fever and nauseaus. He was fine to play in his game by Thu night. Dh got it yesterday, and I woke up with it this morning. I vomited once-other than that I've just been really sick on my stomach and I can't hold my eyes open. So I still haven't finished packing!

:scared1:Oh no Robin!!! I really hope you feel better soon! It's no fun to be sick on the way to Disney....that's what happened on our last trip! I got it on the drive down and passed it to everyone but DH and FIL. Think of it this way, better while traveling than while actually there!!!

I will pray for a quick one for you and that you have a great time!:goodvibes
 
Thanks again! I really am feeling better this morning. Katie just woke up all smiles, so I think she is ok. dd10 is still asleep, but ds12 is up and fine. We leave in 1 hour!:cool1:
 
We are at the airport, all checked in and waiting! Everyone feels fine right now-I'm still not hungry but I can save up until CP tonight. Katie and dd10 are sitting in the floor watching Barney on the portable DVD player. Katie won't wear the headphones, but I have it turned down really low.
 
So glad you're feeling better! Have fun and be safe!
(I'll be thinking of you guys enjoying CP later with envy ;) )
 
We made it. I'm in the ME line. I probably won't have internet until I get home. Katie was an angel-nursed and slept the whole way!
 
I think DS is doomed to have a flat back of his head. No matter what I do DS sleeps with his head flat back and does not want to sleep with his head to one side or the other. I put him to bed and he likes to rock his head back and forth so positioning his head does no good as he does not keep it there. I try to keep him off his back as much as I can during the day and when he is on his back I put whatever has his attention to one side so he has to have his head turned. He has strong neck muscles and has no trouble using them to hold his head up and throw himself around. Guess he wants to look more like his dad as he has a bit of a flat back head too. :goodvibes

I read that you shouldn't worry to much about it as it will fill out once he starts to crawl around. Anyone have any thoughts on this?

The back of Carys' head is a little flat and she is also favoring one side. I asked the doctor about torticolis and she said that as long as she is able to turn her head to the other side than that is probably not it. She might tilt to one side due to her reflux. I don't know. But she also said that her head should round out in the back once the bones form together. There is a bit of a soft spot back there. We try to do tummy time at least twice a day. I've noticed that the boppy is great for that! She can go for a little over 10 minutes before she gets annoyed :laughing: I also help her turn her head side to side and hold it there just to try to strengthen her muscles since she does favor that one side

Carys has an upper GI scheduled for tomorrow morning. I hope that everything goes well. I'm most nervous about her being without food for 3 hours and that she might get more upset from that than the actual test :laughing: I hope that she isn't in too much pain and the test shows how severe her reflux might be and why she sounds like she is choking a lot.

December - glad to hear that the trip down went well! Hope you are having fun!!!
 
Elliott is a rolling machine now! He was laying on the floor of his room, playing under his baby gym, so I went downstairs to get the laundry. When I got back up, he had rolled himsel all the way into the doorway, and was just lying there with a big ole grin on his face. He tends to only roll towards his left side. He did, last night, roll to his right, from belly to back, and I think he totally confused himself!!

We were up north all weekend, and he did great!! Even tried bananas for the first time. He was funny when we got home this afternoon. I got him out of the carseat, and he was just looking around, and looked like he was thinking, "Hey! I know this place!"

He is a tummy sleeper now. Put him in his crib for his nap, he flipped on his belly, and went right to sleep for 2 and a half hours.
 
Forgot to add...Elliott had his 4 month check up on Thursday. He is 14 pounds 12 ounces, and 25 1/4 inches long!
 















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