Like you, this will be my first trip in ages.
I started a "newbie" thread for people like us; it may help you figure out some of the changes that have taken place.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1715551
You're going to get a range of opinions here; everyone has their favorite resort. Why not hit
www.allears.net and take a look at the fact sheets and slide shows on each of the mods.. then try a deluxe like the Wilderness Lodge just to see.
Also, request the planning DVD and hit the reservations website and price out a variety of different resorts. No one is really sure, but some of us suspect that those things may put you in the running for one of the elusive PIN codes that are randomly mailed out-- mine was 40% off the price of the room.
Another thing:
AAA offers great room discounts. TAken from
www.mousesavers.com: "American Automobile Association (AAA) and Canadian Automobile Association (CAA) members qualify for "room only" discounts almost year-round, though there are a limited number of rooms available for each date. You can generally save about 10-20% at the Disney resort hotels, depending on the season.
In general, the discounts run as follows:
During Value Season you can get up to 15% off at the Disney Deluxe and Disney Vacation Club resorts, or 20% off at the Value and Moderate resorts and the Ft. Wilderness campsites.
During Regular Season you can usually get up to 10% off at the Disney Deluxe and Disney Vacation Club resorts, or 15% off at the Value and Moderate resorts and the Ft. Wilderness campsites.
During Peak Season and Summer Season you can usually get up to 10% off at the Disney Deluxe and Disney Vacation Club resorts, or 15% off at the Value and Moderate resorts.
The only time AAA/CAA discounts don't usually apply is Holiday Season (around Christmas) at the Value and Moderate resorts.
You don't have to book AAA/CAA rates through the Auto Club. Room-only reservations with an AAA discount can be booked directly through the Disney Reservation Center at (407) W-DISNEY or a
travel agent who specializes in Disney travel. Just ask if there is an AAA or CAA discount for your dates and resort. "