What is the best airport to fly into?
Closest is John Wayne - SNA
Other possibilities are LAX, Ontario (ONT) and Burbank. Depending on how far you visit around SoCal some folks fly into San Diego.
What's the best way to get from airport to
Disneyland?
Can't help you there. This forum really needs a Transportation thread. I can't write it because we always drive to DLR and do not fly. So no personal experience. Others will need to chime in on this one.
How many days do you need to fully experience both parks?
Three days is considered the minimum to have a solid DLR experience. Four days is better. If you want to "see everything" as in every show, every ride and lots of restaurants then you may need more. It depends on how aggressive you are in your visits. Rope drop every day? Close by hotel with afternoon breaks? What month you go?
As a rough comparison, I would say a three day visit to DLR would be comparable to a seven visit to WDW. Enough to have a lot of fun and do a lot but not experience everything.
Four days at DLR is equal to about 10 days at WDW, and five DLR days is equal to 12-14 at WDW.
Not nearly as important a choice as at WDW. IMO the most important thing is to be close to the parks. DLR has a number of hotel choices where your hotel room door is closer to the park gates than some of the bus dropoffs are at WDW to the park gates there. Some hotels are
really close.
Some WDW vets accustomed to rides on buses and boats and long transportation times do not grasp the advantages at DLR of a close by walking distance hotel at DLR and choose something further away. Often a big mistake IMO.
For more hotel info see this thread
"HydroGuy's Hotel Rule"
www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1199862
Any other advice to help me plan would be appreciated!
This lengthy thread gets lots of mileage around here. After you read it you will be in a better position to ask even better questions around here. I agree with everything it says 100%.
"A DLR Guide for WDW Vets"
www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1162599