We are back from our NO trip and I have to say, we didn't enjoy NO. We really, really wanted to, but it just didn't do it for us for several reasons.
The old buildings & architecture were beautiful, but we live in an antebellum town in GA with lots and lots of beautiful old homes, buildings, and churches. So while we can appreciate the beauty, particularly the iron work, it's nothing out of the ordinary for us.
We felt the native/local absence keenly. We talked to only a few people who were locals. It felt like the soul/heart had gone out of NO and what moved in in its place are opportunists, not people who intend to live there permanently.
We also felt that on the whole, the people were not friendly. We're Southerners and we felt like we were no longer in the South. It was really odd. You know the creepy looking DJ in Zoolander? Apparently he's cloned himself several times, and they and lots more like him can be found in NO.
And nowhere could we get sweet brewed tea. At one place when I asked, the server said, "If we served sweet tea, we would have to have one person that all they did was make sweet tea, because everybody wants it."
We had some good meals, but not anything we couldn't get at any nice restaurant anywhere. And food was very, very expensive. One highlight was when my husband ordered BBQ shrimp at Muriel's and they came with heads and legs still attached.

It's hard to eat with your food staring at you.

Also, at the Royal St. Deli, when my husband asked that his black & bleu sandwich not include grapes in the sandwich filling, the hipster waitress said, "Wellllll . . . the cook really isn't
wanting to do any substituions . . .
right now." If it's not possible, just say so, but a cook in a deli really has no place being as capricious as a chef in a 5 star restaurant.
We went to the WWII museum and my husband enjoyed it; I've been to better museums, but it wasn't bad. The film I felt was a waste of money. We didn't go to the aquarium because we had recently been to the TN aquarium; nor the zoo because we're not zoo people; nor the insectarium because we felt tickets to just that were too expensive. We stopped in at a glass gallery and watched some folks blowing glass for probably an hour - it was awesome! But when we tried to engage the gallery guy about how cool we thought it was, he acted as though he wished he were anywhere but that spot.
We rode the streetcar once and tried to ride it on 2 other occasions, but it was simply PACKED and they wouldn't let any more on.

It was neat.
We walked along the Mississippi and sat around and people watched.
We thought the city was clean, and always felt safe. Then again, we were wiped out most nights (lots of walking!) and went to bed pretty early.
We took a minibus tour of NO and really enjoyed it; we felt like it provided a good overview - we spent a little time in a cemetery, and City Park, and toured the FQ and the Garden District and the 9th ward and some other stuff I can't remember right now.
I can only hope there is a special place in hell for the bureaucrats who caused those poor people all that anguish after Katrina - what happened was really appalling and still is, all these years later.
We went to the Voodoo museum and tried to go to the pharmacy museum, but kept catching it closed when we would be on that street.
Did lots of looking (more than shopping) and was disappointed that there was almost nothing that you couldn't buy in any tourist locale.
Had beignets and cappucino at Cafe du Monde and we like the ones at Huey's on River St. in Savannah better.
We also had Tarot card readings done by a lady at Jackson Square.
The bars were a non-issue; they were there, we weren't.
We were not prepared for the 24/7 noise. We realized what bumpkins we were by the 2nd night; the most noise we hear at night is a hoot owl who hangs out in a tree near our bedroom.
We LOVED the train and would use that as our preferred form of transportation any time! We did have a bedroom, which I got for half price

, which really gave us lots of advantages. LOVED IT.
The condo was great, but we never saw Lenny Kravitz (who owns the property across the street). That would have been AWESOME.
So I'm glad we went, and we know that we don't need to go back.