I'm not in NJ, but I'm in NY, about 7 miles from the George Washington Bridge. And my best friend lives in Boonton - he's the one who first dragged me to GayDays seven years ago.
I'm right near Paramus off of Rt. 4!!! (I prefer to keep my town somewhat secret but suffice to say I can take the small jitney type busses to Garden State)
That's awesome. I'm actually in Ridgewood, NJ now. You have a trip planned soon? I'm going back in August which will be my 16 th trip. I'm totally addicted.